The Role of the Muslim Community in Raising Children in a non-Muslim Society
On the past Fridays, we talked about the role of the Muslim family and the role of the Masjid in the childrens Islamic upbringing process in a non-Muslim society. We mentioned that the role of the Masjid manifests itself in providing programs and projects. For example, an Islamic school, weekend school, youth activities, and so on.
Today, we are talking about the role of the Muslim community in raising the children in an Islamic way in a non-Muslim society.
The role of the Muslim community is important and is based on a number of factors, of which, the most important are:
Supporting the Islamic center so that it keeps providing all the different services and programs and makes improvements.
1- Continuous Financial support to cover all the operating expenses and activities expenses. Every program has expenses, which are only covered by the generous people of the community. "Al Hamdulelah" This community has shown their support in an exemplary manner for this center; all its activities, the Islamic schools, the monthly utility bills and so on.
We give good news and clad tidings to everyone who donated to this center that their donations are considered Sadaqah Jareyah (the on-going charity) that has positive rewarding effects even after death as prophet Muhammad (S.A.W.) promised. Imam Muslim reported that the prophet Muhammad (S.A.W.) said: "When a man dies, his deeds come to an end except for three things, (and the first of them): Sadaqah Jareyah, (ceaseless charity) " And Allah (S.W.T) says in surat Al-Baqarah, (verse 272), which is translated as, "And whatever you spend in good, it is for yourselves, . And whatever you spend in good, it will be repaid to you in full, and you shall not be wronged."
2- Supporting the Islamic center requires also efforts and time invested in voluntary programs and projects that are frequently needed. This is met when you personally come here and bring your children with you. This way, your children take part in the voluntary work. It is an important factor in increasing their tendency to work with a group than to work selfishly and individually. The prophet Muhammad (S.A.W.) used to participate with all his companion in voluntary projects, which are beneficial to the Muslim community.
3- Supporting the Islamic center occurs also through suggesting a good idea to establish new important projects. It also occurs through constructive criticism for existing projects and programs so that they get better. Support does not occur from those who do not show action or from those who criticize only for criticism and always reject others. These people weaken some workers who may leave the projects and subsequently these projects will be weak.
4- Supporting the Islamic center is also done by effective participation in the existing programs and activities by your coming and bringing your family with you. It is a must that you make this participation a part of your daily and weekly schedule. This participation will help you keep coming and so will be beneficial for you and your family. Also, do not forget that you children need social upbringing that will not be accomplished except through the Muslim community. You can not accomplish this alone. The prophet (S.A.W.) ordered us to stay with the Jama'ah (community) and warned us from to stay away from it. The prophet (S.A.W.) says: "Stay with the Jama'ah (community) and be cautious of divisions; Satan is further from the two people and that the wolf do not take from the sheep except the one that is far from the herd." In another narration, he said: "Satan is mans wolf."
5- Supporting the Islamic center is done also by making other Muslims member of this community aware of the activities and programs that the Islamic center has. Also, make sure that you bring some of them with you. This way, you will be performing the Muslims due rights and so you will be rewarded without decreasing their rewards on the Day of Judgment.
What helps you participate in the centers activities and programs is your home. If you live closer to the Masjid, you will be more easily able to participate in the daily prayers for example. It is important that you also establish good relationships on the basis of Islam with other Muslim families. And to make effort to live in a neighborhood with other Muslim families, so that you can share your experiences about raising your children with them.
We need to establish good relationships on the basis of Islam with other Muslim families. That relationship should be based only on Islam and nothing else. Also, be aware from falling into racism, nationalism that the prophet (S.A.W.) warned us against: "Leave it alone. It stinks." The Asabiyah can be exploited by the Satan among people and Jinn, which will lead to the destruction of the Muslim unity.
To keep away from the Asabiyah involves a number of things:
1- To develop good relationships with Muslim families that do not belong to the same nationality or ethnic background.
2- Be aware and avoid the activities that are aimed at only specific nationality or ethnic background or race, for example Arabs with Arabs only, or Palestinians with Palestinians only, or Egyptians with Egyptians only, or Indians with Indians only, or Pakistani with Pakistani only, or the Afro-Americans with the Afro-Americans only, even if these activities are intended to build a Masjid or a center or an organization. This will destroy the unity among Muslim community. Allah (S.W.T) says in surat Ale-Emran, (verse 103), which is translated as, "And hold fast, all of together, to the rope of Allah (Islam), and be not divided among yourselves." And Allah (S.W.T) says in surat Al-Hujurat, (verse 10), which is translated as, "The believers are nothing else than brothers."
Many people who fall in the traps of nationalism are not even aware of the seriousness of this practice which destroy the relationship among Muslim children and among Muslim families. Therefore, destroys the meaning of the Islamic universal message that we need to implant in their minds and exemplify it in their reality.