December 7th, 2006
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As-salamu alaykum. AskBilqis.com receives many more questions than we can answer, so I have published some of the unanswered questions below. If anyone has advice for these brothers and sisters, you are welcome to post a comment below the question. Please no solicitations for marriage, that’s not what this site is for (use Zawaj.com for that).
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Written by wael on December 7th, 2006 with no comments.
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As salaamu alaikum WR WB,
My husband wrote me a letter 9-5-06 telling me that he relieved me of my duties as his wife. It is now 12-4-06. I want to know if I am divorced once the iddat period is over or do I have to wait for him to pronounce this in front of two witnesses? What is the proper way to divorce? Can I divorce him?
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Written by Amatullah on December 7th, 2006 with 2 comments.
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My husband and I have been married for nearly 4 year’s. We are very, very, happy together. However, our intimate sexual life together is horrible. I was raised in America, he in Jordan. I am a revert to Islam, he was raised muslim. He was a virgin when we married, I had been married previously. He REFUSES to touch me in a sexual way, other than to have intercourse. He does not understand the importance of foreplay. It’s just straight to intercourse. So,of course the act is painful for me. And leaves me very unsatisfied and cold. This has been going on for 3 year’s. He simply refuse’s to touch my private area with his hands. Make’s me feel like I’m dirty or something. Other than this big problem in our marriage, we are very happy together. When I do try to bring up the difficulties in this area of our marriage, he get’s angry .So, I dont say anything for long periods of time. I love my husband with all of my heart, and want very much for us to be satisfied in this area of our marriage. Is it sin in Islam, to touch your wife on her private’s? He seem’s to believe this to be the case. Please help. I dont know how much more of this coldness in the bedroom that I can take. -Mona
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Written by Mona45 on December 7th, 2006 with 4 comments.
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Asalaam Walicum…
I have a huge problem and don’t know how to deal with it. It is driving me crazy. My parents are separated because my dad was very abusive and uncaring husband and father. We were never happy living with him. He terrorized the entire family and use to curse all the time. He called my mom names and fought with her all the time. He use to go to places without telling my mom. He didn’t trust my mom at all, even thought we all know she is a decent Muslim lady. She had to talk to his friend on phone to find out where he is and what he was up to. While doing that she started to talk to one of his friend, who was helping my mom with the information about him.
My mom doesn’t have any family members here to help her out. My dad’s side’s family doesn’t want to help or support her even when they know she is right. They take my dad’s side no matter what he does. He hasn’t given child support or any kind of money ever since he has left and its been 5 years. She works 7 days week to support the 4 children. I can’t work because I’m full time college student and the other reason is that my dad won’t all it.
OK, now the problem is that she started to talk to one of his friends about him and learned that my dad is talking bad about my mom with his friends and saying things about her that aren’t true. And his friend also told my mom that he has said that he has divorced her by saying “talak” 3 times. ( I’m not sure how that works). My mom started to like my dad’s friend because he is very kind hearted. He talks respectfully and supports her. She is talking about him everyday and discussing the possibilities of marrying him. We, children, mom, and dad’s friend, went out to dinner. And we all got along well. We all had fun.
But I am not sure how this is all suppose to work. I don’t know what to tell my mom. I sometimes get mad whenever she talks about him or about marrying or when she talks on the phone with him, even though I told my self that she deserves this, she is not doing anything wrong. I sometimes talk back at her. I don’t like this at all. I don’t want to worry about these kinds of things and there is no one to talk about this with. I am going to really go crazy. Now these days she is talking to him at 3:00 in the morning and that does make me mad. I asked her why she did that. She told me that he called her to wake her up namaz. And she also sometimes closes the door when she talks to him. She told me that he wants to marry her and live with the kids. His family, which consists of two daughters and a sick wife, is back home and he is here on visit visa or something. I need help. I don’t know how to deal with my mom. All she has is me to talk to and I am making it worst by making her feel bad. We are all afraid what will happen when our dad will find out what we are up to. I don’t know who to talk to about this, SO PLEASE ANYONE HELP ME. I can’t pay attention to my studies at all. It is affecting my education and my relationship with my mom. She is my best friends I don’t want to lose her.
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Written by saima on December 7th, 2006 with 2 comments.
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My parents married me back home to a man that is my fathers nephew. I was not given the opportunity to consent to the marriage. We have nothing in common and although hes a really nice guy i am still not taken by him. I find it difficult to communicate with him and more crucially i dont fancy him. I’ve been tolerating the situation for four years and that was for the sake of my family and partly because i dont know how to end this marriage and the reaction i will get.
People i talk to just tell me to work at the marriage, but the truth is i never wanted to marry him in the first place and i still feel the same. I dont feel like its for me and worth fighting for. I just feel like i want it to end so i break away and start fresh.
WHAT should i do? follow my heart? is lawful in islam for me to leave him now?
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Written by stukinnowinsituation on December 7th, 2006 with 2 comments.
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pls let me know how to discuss about islam with a woman. my wife wants to learn islam in a correct way in home thru internet.
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Written by SYED on December 7th, 2006 with 2 comments.
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hi im 18 and goin gout with this guy who i also 18 and we really like each other but the thing is im not indian and he is well im mixed im worried that if we want to get married one day his parents wont accept me because im not an indian and this has happened to alot of people i know so what should i do?
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Written by lameez on December 7th, 2006 with 1 comment.
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