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i have frnd he has girlfriend and he wants to marry with her but the girl always asking the reasons to getting marry and he dont have any proper answer that whoy they shuld get marry so please give me the details of reasons to marry from islamic point of view as soon as possible
Written by siraj_amaan on January 17th, 2008 with 1 comment.
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He has spoken to me of marriage can be for a term time set, like 5 years if we wish..
then he spoke he bring me a gift of my choice
we agree to a verbal agreement, contrat
but he does not speak of a formal mosque wedding..what is this and what should I reply to him?
I am a believer (raised in a christian home before) but not converted, he is a muslim man who is of the Islam faith..
I wish to know the truth of marrying because he wish to sleep with me and this to me is not going to happen unless I know this is for real the marriage..
Can someone answer me this, I asked him - but was told of no witnesses or a real Mosque or such marriage..am confused..
thank you
Marilyn
Written by LadyMarilyn55 on January 17th, 2008 with 1 comment.
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2. Are women born solely for the purpose of pleasing their husbands and children, and therefore through that action please Allah?
3. Is it possible for Allah to grant women with talent and intelligence to succeed at a certain career, since this career helps people in many ways?
I would appreciate some guidance in this regard
Shukran
Written by Nazreen1708 on January 17th, 2008 with no comments.
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i feel like i am damned and there is no way back for me. i am a muslim man and was dating this sikh woman for 14 months. i have broken up with her but now she has contacted me saying that she is 6 weeks pregnant and is definitely keeping the baby. I dont know what to do as i am only 21 and still in education. my family will probably disown me if they found out, what do i have to do? marry her? i hate her so much i don’t know if i could do that. i feel like she did this to trap me. someone please help me.
Written by confused09 on January 17th, 2008 with 4 comments.
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Dear Bilqis,
As-Salaam-O-Alaikum
I am a muslim girl, married for 5 years. Recently my husband sent me to my parent’s home, because he wanted to be seperate from me for some time. We have had many small arguments over the time of our marriage, and have no children as well.
I came to my parent’s home and now he is asking me to stop calling or contacting him over the phone. I have been praying to ALLAH that things get better between me and my husband. Is there any strong Dua for hajjat or need or any ayat that i can recite for all the misunderstandings and bad feelings to go away from my husband’s heart. I am very disturbed, and i want forgiveness from ALLAH and my husband for any mistakes of mine and want to be back with my husband. Can you please advice me.
Thank You,
Allah Hafiz,
Naila
Written by naila82 on January 17th, 2008 with 2 comments.
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Hi, I’ve been married to my husband who’s muslim for nearly three years now. At the time we got married in a registry office, with two male muslim witnesses and one female christian witness. As far as my husband knew, interfaith marriages are allowed.
Later while browsing the internet he confirmed that on some islamic sites it states that a muslim man can marry a christian girl in a registry office, but some other sites clearly denies it. So now we are confused has we don’t want to do anthing that goes against Islam.
We’ve been looking through your website and found some of the answers, but we’re still not sure yet about the marriage validity in Islam. I didnt have my father or a guardian at the marriage, the reason being my parents dont agree with me being with a muslim man. But my other family members who are happy with my decision weren’t present at the marriage.
Because of our uncertainty at the validity of our marriage its putting a strain on our relationship. My husband is confused about whether we are allowed to sleep in the same bed and have a sexual relationship. He is practising his religion and also helping me study Islam because I want to convert. So given the circumstances is our marriage valid under the light of QURAN and SUNNAH?
Written by Gem on January 17th, 2008 with comments disabled.
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I have been married to a Muslim for 6 months. I was Christian and converted to Islam for him. I have had a male friend in my life for the last 15 years. We have never dated and have only ever been friends. My friend did like me in the beginning of the friendship but I made it clear to him that friendship was all I wanted. He is now engaged to another woman. I mentioned to my husband that I might want to go visit him (out of state). My husband now says he no longer wants to be with me and I have crossed the line in even bringing up the idea. He says it’s as bad as me having an affair. I have absolutely no feeling for my friend. I love my husband and want to be with him but he says now it may be too late. What is going on? What should I do? Please, any advice would be most welcome.
Thank you,
Amanda
Written by mandimoo2 on January 17th, 2008 with 4 comments.
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we are both 28. (husband is writing)
im in need of advice. i have been married for 4 years and have a 3 year old son together.
my wife just doesnt pay me any attention. Its driving me mad. its not i have been quiet and not told her. i have told her enough times i dont feel loved. she doesnt touch me, or pays me any attention. she argues and puts me at fault all the time which is very upsetting.
when i tell her shes not doing enough, she gets to me and says i do a lot for you. i cook, look after you, make food, iron clothes, etc. changes subject.
any husband in the world would feel the same. in the past and now, she has said so many bad things to hurt me but i have just stayed quiet. i dont know how long can i go on like this. if my son was not here i would have divorced her. i dont wana lose my son as i love him more than anything and hed be lost without me. whats best way to turn?
if we divorce, i will lose my son, my dad who is 70, will be shocked. please help!
Written by annas on January 17th, 2008 with 1 comment.
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I am a 44 year old practicing Catholic woman who lives in the US and met an Algerian man at a friend’s barbecue. We are both in high tech, have similar educational backgrounds, and are divorced with young daughters (his goes to Islamic school and mine to Catholic school). We also share similar values and morals like modesty and doing volunteer work. After we exchanged emails - we met for coffee in a public place and ended up talking for over two hours. That was 5 months ago and we talk daily via phone or email and we attend a lot of the same functions because our common friends are our age with young children. We are best friends and are at the stage where we just started talking about marriage. I am 100% committed to supporting his Islamic faith (I have attended prayers on Friday at Masjid, been to Eid celebrations, as well as hosted “get togethers” at my house with all of our Muslim friends. He has been very honest with me and said that his wish for me is to become a good Muslim woman. I respect him and want to make sure that I am not doing anything to jeapordize his religious convictions or mine. My experience with my church has always been positive and I cannot walk away from what I have known and been taught all my life. I would appreciate your perspective relevant to us getting married or do we cut off our friendship. Thank you for listening and may Allah bless you.
Written by pdxgirl on January 17th, 2008 with no comments.
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salam im 18yr old n i nd help big time i have commimted sooooo many sins n i dnt think allah will eva 4give me n i dnt balme him wel 1st of all i have fallen in luv n i gt pregnant i wntd 2 kp da baby bt my partner said it was 4 da best if we didnt afta tat i gt drunk twice both time regetd it i dnt knw y i do it cnt help myslf nw my partner wnts 2b m8z e said tat he dnt luv me no mre n cnt belive wat i am doing………………..i jst wnt sme1 2 show me hw 2 live wid myslf inside of me is dead y should allah s.w.t 4give me he should h8 me………….how do i ask 4 4givness??? PLZ HELP
Written by saima786 on January 17th, 2008 with 1 comment.
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