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I’m 15, had a relationship and feel dirty. How do I get my life back on track?

I'm 15, when I was 13 I had a relationship and did some sexual things but not intercourse. Now after 2 years or 1 year, I feel as dead, poor, dirty, impure, waste and bad as nothing else.

She was a good friend and I miss her dearly, how can I stop thinking about her?

I want to contact her again, but I dont want to tell her the truth. I'm scared of all this lying. Please tell me a dua which will make me stop thinking about her and give me strength to stay away from lying. I feel very depressed and stressed out. I just want to start talking to her again.

My husband is the best man I can get, but he used to be gay in his teenage; Should I take Talaq?

He gave up having sex with men when he was sixteen. And he tried to get rid of porn and masturbation from his life. He cut down on both a lot. Eventually he found he could control himself and stay away from these sins. And he married me in part to 'control' his desires.

Molested by my father who is a Hafiz

He used to wrestle and pins us to the floor, he used to lick our face, kiss us, he used to touch our back. Astagfirullah but I didn't understand or realised it since I was a teenager. A friend has pointed it out to my sister, she told her once occassion where my dad had pinned her down to the bed and she had felt his private part.

My father tortures my mother, my brother disrespects them and speaks ill about Islam

My parents fight a lot, my dad has a bad tongue and swears a lot, he uses words for my mother which are too disgusting to be heard and he beats her in a very in-human way, like he treats her like an animal. On the other side, my brother, who is an educated person has a very bad behavior towards me and my parents. On the other side, my brother, who is an educated person has a very bad behavior towards me and my parents. On the other side, my brother, who is an educated person has a very bad behavior towards me and my parents. My brother has a very bad attitude towards me and my parents. Hes going far away from Allah and Islam

Marrying a right man

i have question which is always in my mind and i think and think over it again and again. evry thing happens in this world by ALLAh's will and according to my little knowledge Allah has written for us who we marry and who we don't and pious men are for pious women. I would not classify myself as a some kind of very pious person but all my life have feared Allah SWT I am very down to earth person have never harmed any one intentionally but the person I am married to was completely opposite of me.

14 years old and I feel I’m destroyed

When i see my cousins i feel theyre pure and im impure. Im just 14. I cant find a way to move on. Please help me. im going through this bundle of regret, i cant share this with anyone else, ill die like this...what if Allah doesnt forgive me?

I love my wife, but she denies me intimacy sometimes and I’m frustrated

I love my wife dearly. I just can't imagine how life would be without her. We are both very good-looking and romantic and I happen to have a high sex-drive. Yes my wife does give me some intimacy, but at some times she always refuses.

I feel like a bad husband due to my past actions

I feel soo sorry for my wife that she did not get a virgin man. I never deserved her in the first place. Even when sinning, I felt really guilty and would repent but then I would fall into the same trap again and the cycle would just go on and on.

Should I leave my non- Muslim husband?

Which is more sinful. Living with him or breaking the family apart? I have no where to go if I leave him. My dad refuses to take me in as he does not want the children to be fatherless. My husband too refuses to let me go. He wants to fight for custody. I do not want to leave in bitterness. I live in a country where money is everything.