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I'm a 16-year old sister who has (I'm very embarassed to say this) a very ... a very high sexual drive. But my parents believe that I'm too young to get married yet.
I was a good child, I sought Allah, I prayed 5 times a day as a child and even as a teenager. I stayed up long nights reading Quran , making Dikr.. I am not a faithless or unaware person. I know I need to change, I am very lost and confused and find myself doing bad things, talking to bad people.
I thought Allah hated me and wanted him to hurt me. Even though I know that's probably not right, I still feel that way sometimes. I feel like Allah hates me. Thats when I go back to my suicidal thoughts. I planned, but I'm too scared. Sometimes though I hurt myself without knowing because I'm just so sad.
After a few days he told me he was engaged and later that very evening confessed he loved me. Then chatting on and off for 2-3 days he said he was interested in me but since he was engaged he wanted to stop messaging. I can't get him out of my mind.
My sexual urges seem to have a lot of control over me. So, I often tend to masturbate in my bed before sleeping at night. While masturbating, I fantasize about myself having sex with a beautiful, thin woman. It gives me a lot of pleasure. Sometimes, my desires also lead me to watch animated porn videos.
He said men are promiscuous by nature and monogamous by choice. I have observed other men but I truly feel like my husband looks a lot more than most.
My question is am i being selfish for not wanting kids does it make me a bad muslim and wicked and evil? and must i be forced into being a dad even if i dont want to as some people insist i must get married it will solve all my problems when clearly that isnt always the case.
I'm 15, when I was 13 I had a relationship and did some sexual things but not intercourse. Now after 2 years or 1 year, I feel as dead, poor, dirty, impure, waste and bad as nothing else.
I want to contact her again, but I dont want to tell her the truth. I'm scared of all this lying. Please tell me a dua which will make me stop thinking about her and give me strength to stay away from lying. I feel very depressed and stressed out. I just want to start talking to her again.
He gave up having sex with men when he was sixteen. And he tried to get rid of porn and masturbation from his life. He cut down on both a lot. Eventually he found he could control himself and stay away from these sins. And he married me in part to 'control' his desires.