Afraid of punishment from Allah
I had done a Gunah-e-kabira (a major sin), now I'm so ashamed of it that I can't sleep at night I'm afraid of punishment from ALLAH, I make too much Astaghfar all the day and night. Do ALLAH forgive me???? Please help me, I'm so tense and worried. Tell me please what can I do. Any kafara????
Mehr-un-Nisa
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"Huwa ghafurur raheem "my brother if Allah SWT ,THE FORGIVER can forgive the sorcerers that helped firaun then he can forgive keep up with the astagfar. Insha Allah you will be forgiven.
Assalamu'alaikum sister Mehrun Nisa,
May Allah Forgive you. We do not have much information to say what the kaffarah will be. If you feel comfortable in telling what the major sin (gunah-e-kabirah) was, in sha Allah, I will try and tell you what the kaffarah is, or if tawbah is enough. Your identity is anyway not known to anyone here.
Allah Is The Most Merciful, so do not lose hope in Him, and May He Forgive you.
Abu Abdul Bari
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Tawbah is something that is between you and Allah; your Creator, Sustainer, and Cherisher. And it’s something that we should really do often [not just in Ramadaan], because Allah says: إن الله يحب التوابين “Surely, Allah loves those people who constantly repent to Him (do Tawbah to Him).” [2:222] Notice Allah did not say: “Allah loves the Taa’ibeen (those who repent)”, but he said: تَوَّابِيْن, which means “those who constantly, over and over, repent to Allah.”
Allah is the most forgving of them all , the only way you can be forgived in such manner is that u start to repent towards Allah .
:pray as much as you can.
: keep continuing to do tawbah.
if you don't pray 5 times namaz start now.
: give out to the poor.
: help others in need.
: continue doing good deeds to fill your heart with purity and in shaa allah youl feel like yourself again.
In the name of Allah most merciful..
"Indeed! God does not forgive the sin of ascribing partners to Him, but He forgives anything else to whom He pleases, and whoever takes partners with God has gone astray into far error".Qur'an (4:116)
No one know that what will happen to you at the day of judgment. I assure you Allah Mercy is more above. He is Ghafoor(most forgiving). Do tobah in such a way that make hope that Allah forgive you, but also fear from Jahanum, may Allah give you reward of your sin. I pray for your forgiveness. May Allah forgive you.
I will also advise you for increasing your relationship with Allah, do more and more good deeds Pray nawafil, do zikar , recitation of Quran with understanding and also fasting. All the ways through which you can inrease your love with Allah, such that weight of your good deeds(beneficence) heavier then your sins.
“…And beg Allah to forgive you all, O believers, that you may be successful. “
Quran (Surah An-Noor, Verse 31)
“Seek the forgiveness of your Lord, and turn to Him in repentance, that He may grant you good enjoyment, for a term appointed, and bestow His abounding Grace to every owner of grace. But if you turn away, then I fear for you the torment of a Great Day (i.e. the Day of Resurrection).”
Quran (Surah Hood, Verse 3)
May Allah guide us.
Subhana Allah!!! Have you picked up the Qur'an ?
Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said, "By the One in Whose Hand my soul is! If you do not commit sins, Allah would replace you with a people who would commit sins and seek forgiveness from Allah; and Allah will certainly forgive them.''[Muslim]
Riyaadus' Saaliheen 1871
Ibn `Umar (May Allah be pleased with them) said: We counted Messenger's saying a hundred times during one single sitting: Rabb-ighfir li, wa tubb `alayya, innaka Antat-Tawwabur-Rahim. (My Rubb! Forgive me and pardon me. Indeed, You are the Oft-Returning with compassion and Ever Merciful.''
[Abu Dawud and At-Tirmidhi].
Riyaadus' Saaliheen 1872
Ibn Mas`ud (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said, "He who says: `Astaghfir ullah-alladhi la ilaha illa Huwal-Haiyul-Qayyumu, wa atubu ilaihi (I seek the forgiveness of Allah, there is no true god except Allah, the Ever-Living, the Self-Subsisting, and I turn to Him in repentance),' his sins will be forgiven even if he should have run away from the battlefield (while he was engaged in fighting for the Cause of Allah).''
[Abu Dawud, At-Tirmidhi and Al-Hakim (on conditions of Al-Bukhari and Muslim for accepting Hadith)].
Riyaadus' Saaliheen 1874
Commentary: When we say that this narration fulfills the conditions of Al-Bukhari and Muslim; it means that its narrators are the narrators of Al-Bukhari and Muslim. Secondly, in this selection those conditions have also been kept in view, which are the landmark of Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
Shaddad bin Aus (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Prophet (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said, "The best supplication for seeking forgiveness (Syed-ul-Istighfar) is to say: `Allahumma Anta Rabbi, la ilaha illa Anta, khalaqtani wa ana `abduka, wa ana `ala `ahdika wa wa`dika mastata`tu, a`udhu bika min sharri ma sana`tu, abu'u laka bini`matika `alayya, wa abu'u bidhanbi faghfir li, fa innahu la yaghfirudh-dhunuba illa Anta. (O Allah! You are my Rubb. There is no true god except You. You have created me, and I am Your slave, and I hold to Your Covenant as far as I can. I seek refuge in You from the evil of what I have done. I acknowledge the favours that You have bestowed upon me, and I confess my sins. Pardon me, for none but You has the power to pardon).' He who supplicates in these terms during the day with firm belief in it and dies on the same day (before the evening), he will be one of the dwellers of Jannah; and if anyone supplicates in these terms during the night with firm belief in it and dies before the morning, he will be one of the dwellers of Jannah.''
[Al-Bukhari].
Riyaadus' Saaliheen 1875
You know what I think you better read this entire chapter from Riyaadhus Saaliheen.
keep repenting and dont reveal ur sin. Allah(S.W.A) Has kept it secret so dont reveal it. continue repenting and praying. prayers are expiation of sins. never lose faith in Allah(S.W.A). it isnt the things that we have done that make all the difference, but what we do from that moment onwards.
salams,
inshallah allah will forgive all our sins. Don't lose hope or patience.
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Wael
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Asalaam alekum
I am feeling very guilty. I just had an abortion done
Which is haraam, because of my circumstances I already have 4 children very young of age. I want to do tawbah I now realize I did wrong by having an abortion. Please give me or tell me what to read to do for Allah Tallah's forgiveness. Please do reply.
Asalaam alekum
actuaaly i dnt knw how to say, bt i hv to share dis so dat i can make repentace for my deed, i was an affair wid a non muslim boy nd i got indulge with him also witout unaware of kabeera sageera gunah.. aftr few years i got married with a muslim man... aftr dat also i was in keep in touch with him my previous b.f.... bt later i realizd it is all gunah nd shoud ask mercy from allah and ask for tauba ... i dnt knw wat to do how to make tauba correctly plzz guide me i want make myself pure as before plzz do help me... i really want to make tauba
plz dont dis ques here ans me in my mail box only
i do a zina in ramazan at morning now i am ashamed of me and didn't know wht to do, please give any solution other wise i will die with it plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz...
faisal, you have to make a sincere tawbah and never commit this sin again. Cut off your relationship with the woman, whoever she is, and make tawbah to Allah.
Wael
IslamicAnswers.com Editor