Boyfriend threatens to ruin me and my family
As salam aliekum
I am a regular visitor of your website. I am in need of urgent counseling. Please help me. I don't understand what to do.
We were good always. Our marriage was about to be fixed few months back but a few things went wrong in my family and they denied marrying me to him for so many reasons. But later I convinced my family but they asked us to wait for valid reasons. He was ready to wait for me as long as my family asks us to wait but now he has changed his decision for reasons which I regard totally illogical. He asked me not to contact him but I did because my sins were tormenting me and I wanted to marry him and marry no one. He abused me and tried many ways to keep away but still I was behind.
Only sometime back he called my sister and told "ask your sister not to contact me, she is troubling me a lot". I got angry, called him back and spoke indecent words, which I regret I shouldn't have done. Now he got enraged and he threatens to ruin the living of my entire family and me. Why should my family suffer for no fault of their's? He told that he will plan it out very carefully. I don't want shame to come upon my family because of me. He has sworn by Allah, by Qur'an and by his parents that he will surely ruin me, my married and unmarried sisters and my neice. And also ruin the reputaion of my father and brothers.
I have many things to tell but can't type evrything. I could confide in you people if I could speak to you people face to face or at least over phone. I have my final exams from tomorrow, I am so much preoccupied with all these things. I think I will fail.
Please reply urgently.
As salam aliekum.
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