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		<title>By: SisterZ</title>
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		<dc:creator>SisterZ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2012 16:58:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No, you cannot marry a hindu boy.  It is forbidden for both Muslim men and women to marry hindus.

If you have any further question, please log in and submit your question as a separate post.

SisterZ
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No, you cannot marry a hindu boy.  It is forbidden for both Muslim men and women to marry hindus.</p>
<p>If you have any further question, please log in and submit your question as a separate post.</p>
<p>SisterZ<br />
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		<title>By: Fathima</title>
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		<dc:creator>Fathima</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2012 09:14:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am a muslim girl. I am in love with a Hindu boy. I want to marry him.Can I marry him without converting him to muslim??</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a muslim girl. I am in love with a Hindu boy. I want to marry him.Can I marry him without converting him to muslim??</p>
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		<title>By: Eren</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eren</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 09:24:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well said! JazakAllah</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well said! JazakAllah</p>
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		<title>By: wired</title>
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		<dc:creator>wired</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jan 2012 11:26:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>1. It is not allowed for a Muslim woman to marry a non-Muslim man. Period. That is Allah&#039;s decree, not mine.

^^ Liar. No where in the Qu&#039;ran does it say this. Not the original one. This was a rule imposed by a group of old thinking men called Jurists. The fact that you would spout such lies shows us where you shall go when you die.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1. It is not allowed for a Muslim woman to marry a non-Muslim man. Period. That is Allah's decree, not mine.</p>
<p>^^ Liar. No where in the Qu'ran does it say this. Not the original one. This was a rule imposed by a group of old thinking men called Jurists. The fact that you would spout such lies shows us where you shall go when you die.</p>
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		<title>By: wael</title>
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		<dc:creator>wael</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Jul 2011 20:22:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you. We have about 80 questions in the queue, we will get to yours in turn Insha&#039;Allah.

Wael
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you. We have about 80 questions in the queue, we will get to yours in turn Insha'Allah.</p>
<p>Wael<br />
IslamicAnswers.com Editor</p>
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		<title>By: saimaa786</title>
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		<dc:creator>saimaa786</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Jul 2011 20:05:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Salam Wael,

thankyou for your reply, I posted it seprately in  block of unlawful relationship- status is pending for review. I will be waiting for your reply.

Thankyou</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Salam Wael,</p>
<p>thankyou for your reply, I posted it seprately in  block of unlawful relationship- status is pending for review. I will be waiting for your reply.</p>
<p>Thankyou</p>
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		<title>By: wael</title>
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		<dc:creator>wael</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Jul 2011 16:46:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>saima, please log in and write your question as a separate post, and we will advise you on your sister&#039;s situation, Insha&#039;Allah.

Wael
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>saima, please log in and write your question as a separate post, and we will advise you on your sister's situation, Insha'Allah.</p>
<p>Wael<br />
IslamicAnswers.com Editor</p>
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		<title>By: saima</title>
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		<dc:creator>saima</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Jul 2011 10:47:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Can anyone help me to know dua to recite for breakage of  my younger Muslim sister (19 y/o) unlawful relationship with her non-muslim husband, with who she did court marriage-not mosque or church marriagewts so ever. This fellow is illegal in U.S and we all know he did this for sake of greencard- he is not planning to convert to Islam nor my sister is forcing him- My parents are having a very very hard time, b/c my sister has cutoff her all relationships with her- she called police even- I didnt know tht laws are so strong for illegal immigrant than legal folks. some people says its black magic as his origin is from chennai- i didnt mean tht every one belonging to tht place is superstitoius- but circumstances are telling tht there is no match b/w him and my sis in education, personaltiy, background, he is very poor personality, ZERO (zero) education guy, moreover we and even her dont know anything about his family cuz all we saw is his parnets pic and rest of his family is in Chennai, and who knows he is already married in his home country and the man who speaks longdistance on phone with my sis is this man father or not. This is tough to swallow and from almost last year she even did not finish her education- her education stopped there. Now she is living with him from last 8 months and commiting ZInah- unlawful relationship-even we told her plenty times along with Quran ayats tht no muslim woman can marry non-muslim guy, but she is not willing to listen to us and now moreover she doesnt even reply my mom&#039;s call- mom leaves her crying messages in her voicemail but she is not talking to my mom except my elder bro- who is also involved in with non-muslim girl, infact my bro is worst, more selfish not willing to help my family in this situation, instead he is creating more negative feelings in her (my sis) mind against my parents and me.  My parents and me going thru the toughest time of our life.

Please who ever read this blog pray for my younger sister to be good Muslimah and her return to good deeds and closeness to Islam.

if someone knows any dua or wazifa to recite for breaking unlawful relationship pls do tell me. or any suggestion please- I am too much worried about her becuase I know my sis was not this as she is now and she never/ever agreed any discussion for getting married with non-muslim man.

Please help</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Can anyone help me to know dua to recite for breakage of  my younger Muslim sister (19 y/o) unlawful relationship with her non-muslim husband, with who she did court marriage-not mosque or church marriagewts so ever. This fellow is illegal in U.S and we all know he did this for sake of greencard- he is not planning to convert to Islam nor my sister is forcing him- My parents are having a very very hard time, b/c my sister has cutoff her all relationships with her- she called police even- I didnt know tht laws are so strong for illegal immigrant than legal folks. some people says its black magic as his origin is from chennai- i didnt mean tht every one belonging to tht place is superstitoius- but circumstances are telling tht there is no match b/w him and my sis in education, personaltiy, background, he is very poor personality, ZERO (zero) education guy, moreover we and even her dont know anything about his family cuz all we saw is his parnets pic and rest of his family is in Chennai, and who knows he is already married in his home country and the man who speaks longdistance on phone with my sis is this man father or not. This is tough to swallow and from almost last year she even did not finish her education- her education stopped there. Now she is living with him from last 8 months and commiting ZInah- unlawful relationship-even we told her plenty times along with Quran ayats tht no muslim woman can marry non-muslim guy, but she is not willing to listen to us and now moreover she doesnt even reply my mom's call- mom leaves her crying messages in her voicemail but she is not talking to my mom except my elder bro- who is also involved in with non-muslim girl, infact my bro is worst, more selfish not willing to help my family in this situation, instead he is creating more negative feelings in her (my sis) mind against my parents and me.  My parents and me going thru the toughest time of our life.</p>
<p>Please who ever read this blog pray for my younger sister to be good Muslimah and her return to good deeds and closeness to Islam.</p>
<p>if someone knows any dua or wazifa to recite for breaking unlawful relationship pls do tell me. or any suggestion please- I am too much worried about her becuase I know my sis was not this as she is now and she never/ever agreed any discussion for getting married with non-muslim man.</p>
<p>Please help</p>
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		<title>By: Muhammad1982</title>
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		<dc:creator>Muhammad1982</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jul 2011 21:55:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Assalam O Alaikum sister &quot;I submit to Allah&quot;,
                                                                                 Jazak Allah for you time sister. One thing I wanted to make clear is that we don&#039;t actually give out fatwas as this is common sense advice forum where brothers and sisters are advised in the light of Quran, Sunnah of our beloved Prophet (PBUH) and Hadith. However, we sometimes do provide fatwas from other scholars depending upon the situation at hand. Another point is that we don&#039;t tell people to stick with what we say, instead we provide them with the best options available in that particular situation so that, they can decide for themselves. It has nothing to do with; &quot;whether it suits their needs or not&quot;. We don&#039;t go against the teachings of Quran and the Sunnah and Hadith of Holy Prophet (PBUH) to make it &quot;suitable for them&quot; and also we don&#039;t stress/force someone to follow our advice as we understand that we are humans and we could be wrong as well. In many cases where we think that we don&#039;t have much knowledge or the issue in hand is more related to Fiqh; we advise the questioner to seek the advice of a knowledged person in Fiqh i-e; complicated divorce cases.
I hope it helped you to understand Insha Allah.

Wasalam,
Your brother in Islam,
Muhammad1982.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Assalam O Alaikum sister "I submit to Allah",<br />
                                                                                 Jazak Allah for you time sister. One thing I wanted to make clear is that we don't actually give out fatwas as this is common sense advice forum where brothers and sisters are advised in the light of Quran, Sunnah of our beloved Prophet (PBUH) and Hadith. However, we sometimes do provide fatwas from other scholars depending upon the situation at hand. Another point is that we don't tell people to stick with what we say, instead we provide them with the best options available in that particular situation so that, they can decide for themselves. It has nothing to do with; "whether it suits their needs or not". We don't go against the teachings of Quran and the Sunnah and Hadith of Holy Prophet (PBUH) to make it "suitable for them" and also we don't stress/force someone to follow our advice as we understand that we are humans and we could be wrong as well. In many cases where we think that we don't have much knowledge or the issue in hand is more related to Fiqh; we advise the questioner to seek the advice of a knowledged person in Fiqh i-e; complicated divorce cases.<br />
I hope it helped you to understand Insha Allah.</p>
<p>Wasalam,<br />
Your brother in Islam,<br />
Muhammad1982.</p>
<p>Editor, IslamicAnswers.com</p>
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		<title>By: I submit to Allah</title>
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		<dc:creator>I submit to Allah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jul 2011 21:22:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ruqqayah thank you for making me laugh (its been a really long time)

Not at you, la wallah i&#039;m not, its just heartwarming to read how you were telling them off with such fierce simplicity and noble honour. i had a visual that you were waving a dust pan at them while you told them off.

Your purity and the cute way you defended islam was priceless &amp; what you said was true, the delivery was priceless and im going to save it to make me smile when i need to.

Inshallah your deeds be as great as that of one of the mothers of alsahabah (the prophets pbuh&#039;s companions- ll try to get her name later on) in battle she was nursing the wounded and it came to a point that the back of the Rassoul pbuh was open to attack, she had the same instinctive protective reaction as you did and innocently she picked up a sword and attempted to prod it towards the direction of the horsed enemy, he cautioned her to move and make way so he attacks the prophet pbuh from behind and she didnt, she futily tried to fight this skilled warrior, after warning her he hacked at her shoulder wounding her deeply in an attempt to get her to move...yet she stayed firm, defending the Prophet pbuh, at that point I believe it was her son that came and took her place.

It is said that the prophet praised her for her bravery and as i recall promised her paradise.
May every word and letter you typed weigh your scales of good deeds and pave your way to Jannah too :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ruqqayah thank you for making me laugh (its been a really long time)</p>
<p>Not at you, la wallah i'm not, its just heartwarming to read how you were telling them off with such fierce simplicity and noble honour. i had a visual that you were waving a dust pan at them while you told them off.</p>
<p>Your purity and the cute way you defended islam was priceless &amp; what you said was true, the delivery was priceless and im going to save it to make me smile when i need to.</p>
<p>Inshallah your deeds be as great as that of one of the mothers of alsahabah (the prophets pbuh's companions- ll try to get her name later on) in battle she was nursing the wounded and it came to a point that the back of the Rassoul pbuh was open to attack, she had the same instinctive protective reaction as you did and innocently she picked up a sword and attempted to prod it towards the direction of the horsed enemy, he cautioned her to move and make way so he attacks the prophet pbuh from behind and she didnt, she futily tried to fight this skilled warrior, after warning her he hacked at her shoulder wounding her deeply in an attempt to get her to move...yet she stayed firm, defending the Prophet pbuh, at that point I believe it was her son that came and took her place.</p>
<p>It is said that the prophet praised her for her bravery and as i recall promised her paradise.<br />
May every word and letter you typed weigh your scales of good deeds and pave your way to Jannah too <img src='http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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