Islamic marriage advice and family advice

Can dua change our kismet?

Dua woman at Sunset

Assalamualikum....I had a boy friend...
Actually he is in a relationship with the other girl...
And that girl got a dream after reading isthekhaara namaz that she is going to marry him....
My doubt is that am now praying intensly to Allah that I should marry my boyfriend....
I am beliving that dua changes everything and I am hoping that Allah tala listens to me...
Is this possible with dua..?
Please help me?

seema jasmin


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  1. Firstly there is no B/F OR G/F relationship in Islam it is HARAAM.

    Why would you want to be with someone who already has a girlfriend.

    Dua is granted but in real life everyone of us is put into a test of Patience and test of good deeds or bad deeds. You can chose your own path in this. Dua is granted you should never stop asking BUT it is haraam to have a B/F.

    I urge you to turn to Allah and make dua for yourself where Allah grants you a good man in marriage. DO NOT continue in this haraam relationship it will cost you more than your respect you cant change anything then.

    I strongly advise you to ask for family involvement in finding YOU a husband rather than going through behind closed doors some people will take advantage.

  2. No, dua does not "change everything." For example, dua will not change the sky from blue to purple. Dua will not make a 5-ft woman suddenly grow to 6-ft. Dua will not change the ordinary course of things, and the ordinary course of things on this earth is "cause and effect". Furthermore, dua does not change someone's behaviour or their mind.

    This boy has decided to be with someone else. Dua will not change his mind. Why do you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you, anyway?

    • Duaa changes everything in accordance with the will of Allah. Nothing is impossible in Him.

      • Yes, you are right. It is the will of Allah that dominates, not our will. The universe does not bend according to our dua -- it bends according to Allah's will. I'm sorry, but you have a naïve view of what dua is.

      • The brothers are right...
        The short answer is YES it can change. so make a sincere duaa over and over with conviction that it wil be answered, and do not give up

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