http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/can-i-see-prospective-husband/ Common Sense Answers to Islamic Marriage and Family Questions Wed, 19 Nov 2008 16:52:10 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.0.5 http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/can-i-see-prospective-husband/#comment-4417 Sun, 29 Apr 2007 13:06:45 +0000 http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/can-i-see-prospective-husband/#comment-4417 Kotch, please do not confuse your culture with Islamic teachings. What is your evidence? Remember, we are not talking about a meeting just to fraternise, as lehaska pointed out, but to share views with the intention of discovering if the other person is a good marriage partner. The woman must have a mahram present, and both parties should observe Islamic rules of hayaa. What problem do you find with this? Kotch, please do not confuse your culture with Islamic teachings. What is your evidence? Remember, we are not talking about a meeting just to fraternise, as lehaska pointed out, but to share views with the intention of discovering if the other person is a good marriage partner. The woman must have a mahram present, and both parties should observe Islamic rules of hayaa. What problem do you find with this?

]]> http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/can-i-see-prospective-husband/#comment-2872 Tue, 24 Apr 2007 18:11:31 +0000 http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/can-i-see-prospective-husband/#comment-2872 In the light of Islamic teachings there is no permission to meet, talk and share ideas about future life or any other talks with the future husband, Iam very sad to say that people only find Islam to make there exercise with sharias matter without the basic knowledge of Islam. I request M/s Bilqis to stop giving blunder fatwas In the light of Islamic teachings there is no permission to meet, talk and share ideas about future life or any other talks with the future husband, Iam very sad to say that people only find Islam to make there exercise with sharias matter without the basic knowledge of Islam. I request M/s Bilqis to stop giving blunder fatwas

]]> http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/can-i-see-prospective-husband/#comment-2326 Wed, 18 Apr 2007 04:22:22 +0000 http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/can-i-see-prospective-husband/#comment-2326 Actually his parents being there or not doesn't matter and isn't important. The condition on which they can meet is that the girl's mahram has to be with her. Mahram is a relative (father) passed puberty to whom marriage is forbidden in the Qur'an. She should also dress according to islam for the meeting. The point of the meeting is not to fraternise or anything, it is just to ask each other their views so you know what the other person is like. Actually his parents being there or not doesn’t matter and isn’t important. The condition on which they can meet is that the girl’s mahram has to be with her. Mahram is a relative (father) passed puberty to whom marriage is forbidden in the Qur’an. She should also dress according to islam for the meeting. The point of the meeting is not to fraternise or anything, it is just to ask each other their views so you know what the other person is like.

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