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How can I make my father understand? and why do I have no say in my future?(4)

September 2, 2010

I am a 30 year old Pakistani girl and have been with someone for two years we have met several times face to face and over the 2 years are feeling for each other are getting stronger. He lives in another country and I live in the UK. The problem is that I mentioned to my family a year ago that I wanted to get married to this man (he’s an Arab) but they can not come over the cultural differences and how the community would perceive them. I have asked my father many occasions to speak to him and he’s refused, he wants nothing to do with it.

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Family politics are confusing my marriage decision

I have a problem that’s been a problem for a while. Ok so there’s a guy that’s asking for my hand in marriage. I prayed salat al istakharah a lot and I had a dream that I said yes to him and I was so happy and his face looked like it was lighting. I always have a strong feeling that I should say yes. They also say that one of the signs that Allah gives you to show you the right way is people around you either want or don’t want two people to join into marriage.

Should I be honest during the courting period even when I have sinned?

I have a problem which make me to think all day and night. I have been in a relationship and we had decided to marry each other. We did something which were sin and I did those only because I was sure of my decision and wanted to marry him.(I’m a virgin and didn’t lose my virginity but he has touched my body and I did so with him).

Not sure if I should marry this married man

Bismillah arahmaniraheem asoa

I am unmarried and I like one married man. He has a child also but he proposed to me and I did istekhara many times but I did not understand. Anyway I inform to my Mom and she is also agree after istekhara still my heart not change.I mean, some people say if after istekhara we change our mind it means this thing is not good for us.


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