I have been married for six months and have children from a previous marriage. My husband is overseas and I'm in America. I only stayed with him for a little less than a month after we got married. I was diagnosed with what they call "Black Magic" after I got married to him.

When I came back to America I have been told he is speaking with another female. He had been doing this ever since I left the country. Recently I recieved a call from a female over seas that confirmed he had intercourse with her. She even recorded it and of course let me hear it. Is it right for me to ask for a divorce since we have been having problems since our marriage??

~ Sister

I had sex with a married women. What should I do now? Do I have to tell everything to her husband, ask for forgiveness or just I have to ask Allah to forgive and keep this as a secret to her husband?

Please help me.

- mundu

Is my marriage permissible?

We have been dating for 4 years now, and are planning to get married in another 3 years (Insha'Allah) but we both agree not to change religions (vice versa). How can we make it work?

Vpham.

I am a 24-year-old married girl. It was an arranged marriage. And it seems he was forced to marry me by his mom though he doesn’t have any love affair as such.My husband repeatedly says he regrets this marriage and colours of his life has vanished?

He had many concepts about his future wife and according to that I am the worst match for his criteria. He wanted a beautiful and talented wife and I have a bad complexion and I am just a homemaker rather than a talented girl.

He hates to show me to his friends and whenever we meet other family or friends he acts as if he loves me like anything and we are the best couples ever. That hurts me a lot.  Due to his constant bragging my parents came to know about these issues. And his mom already knows everything, as he tells everything to his mom and scolds her every now and then saying she spoiled his life.

And we had two major fights in which my family got involved and took me away from him due to physical torture. And he was very upset and wanted me back and my parents demanded he go for counseling and he went through and the counselor asked me to go to back with him.

In the initial days he was angel, but later again he keeps on saying this and mentally tortures me and keeps on saying badly of my family and tries to bring out new problems. Whenever we sleep together and make love he says I am skinny and have dry skin and that he doesn’t even want to love me.

I am being very helpless. But whatever he says when tortures me, he wants me to forget and again be the same old me with a happy smile.  I hate to be with him because I don’t know when he will torture me with his words.

He hates me also because I haven’t become pregnant since 2 years. I don’t feel like living with him anymore. And I am very scared to take a decision. Please help me anyone??

~Sana Akram

Asalaamualaykum,

I am in love with a muslimah and she loves me, we are living in different countries, but try to visit each other when we can. I feel we cannot marry as both of us are full time students in our respective countries (england and spain) and don't have the needs to support ourselves.

Please could you give me advice because I would like to make her my wife inshallah.

~ Abdullah77

I need to get a divorce from this guy but he won't let me unless I leave my kids with him and I will never want to do that! Please give me some advice. What should I do? Should I stay with him and hope he changed for good one day or should I ask him to leave me but how should I ask him? He says and please make dua for me that I'm able to leave him or he becomes agood man.

JazakAllah

We have tried all different ways to convice my parent through my other family members, but still nothing worked for us. After 8 years friendship we decided to leave eachother but it was just impossible to think about it, because this guy that im in love with has heart problem. If I leave him and if something happens to him I will never forgive my self. And on the other hand I cannot go againts my parent. We have decided not to leave eachother and see if something happen and my parent accept us or else we will stay like this. We have accepted eachother by heart as life partners.

He lives in other country now so we are only in contact by phone, however we tend to come closer to eachother day by day and I thought maybe its not halal without Nikkah. Now my question is that is it haram to be in contact to him without Nikkah (we want to do nikkah but we r helpless)?

And if its haram, if we do Nikkah without my parent's permission will there be issues with it?

Thank you

-Marwa

Salam!

I met a girl at school, I want to marry her as well, but my father rejected the married because I'm sunni and she's shia.

~Umar Ali

I have been in a love relation for the past 7-8 years. He is also a Muslim and loved me a lot. We were supposed to get married but something went wrong with his family as they came to know that my father is an addict; this is not my fault. He some how got physically connected with a girl then we were facing problem and later confirmed that he never gave my place to anyone else. He was sorry and I tried forgiving him; some how I taunted him about it and he decided to end relation with me.

He behaves the same way; cares for me but when it comes to say I love you he starts fearing. He made me better and even taught religious stuff. He always said the problem is not his but his family but yesterday he got angry and said he is not interested to marry me.

What shall I do? I can't live without him and can't even believe that Allah is doing this to me. Everything was perfect but now I don't know. Allah always gave me more than what I wanted but this time he is giving me hope and than again breaking it.

I am so hurt that I sometime decide to not think of Allah but what can I do I can't stop trusting Allah and nor can I stop loving him. I have been waiting to solve this for a longtime.

Please help me.
~Tashnim.

asalam o alaikum w.r.t.b!

I am a medical student from pakistan. me and my family are in a big problem.. as it happens, without our knowledge my brother (who is my class fellow) read some anti islamic novels and books mostly of the author Uzma Aslam khan, in which she wrote some ayats and denied the truth of them...

now my bro is believing the author's words.. also he has read other books and articles ,thus is becoming a secularist.. and also has shown interest in boys instead of girls.

...we are deeply hurt...we are practicing muslims, no one near us has ever done so.. my dad has tried a lot to guide him back to islam but in vain.... we need help how to guide him,he is a good boy. not much mature... he just got some wrong ideas in his mind..

please help us.. may Alah give u ajar e azeem!

jazakallah khair kasireen

- glitterbutterfly