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I have been married to a Muslim for 6 months. I was Christian and converted to Islam for him. I have had a male friend in my life for the last 15 years. We have never dated and have only ever been friends. My friend did like me in the beginning of the friendship but I made it clear to him that friendship was all I wanted. He is now engaged to another woman. I mentioned to my husband that I might want to go visit him (out of state). My husband now says he no longer wants to be with me and I have crossed the line in even bringing up the idea. He says it’s as bad as me having an affair. I have absolutely no feeling for my friend. I love my husband and want to be with him but he says now it may be too late. What is going on? What should I do? Please, any advice would be most welcome.
Thank you,
Amanda
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Written by mandimoo2 on January 17th, 2008 with 7 comments.
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we are both 28. (husband is writing)
im in need of advice. i have been married for 4 years and have a 3 year old son together.
my wife just doesnt pay me any attention. Its driving me mad. its not i have been quiet and not told her. i have told her enough times i dont feel loved. she doesnt touch me, or pays me any attention. she argues and puts me at fault all the time which is very upsetting.
when i tell her shes not doing enough, she gets to me and says i do a lot for you. i cook, look after you, make food, iron clothes, etc. changes subject.
any husband in the world would feel the same. in the past and now, she has said so many bad things to hurt me but i have just stayed quiet. i dont know how long can i go on like this. if my son was not here i would have divorced her. i dont wana lose my son as i love him more than anything and hed be lost without me. whats best way to turn?
if we divorce, i will lose my son, my dad who is 70, will be shocked. please help!
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Written by annas on January 17th, 2008 with 1 comment.
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I am a 44 year old practicing Catholic woman who lives in the US and met an Algerian man at a friend’s barbecue. We are both in high tech, have similar educational backgrounds, and are divorced with young daughters (his goes to Islamic school and mine to Catholic school). We also share similar values and morals like modesty and doing volunteer work. After we exchanged emails - we met for coffee in a public place and ended up talking for over two hours. That was 5 months ago and we talk daily via phone or email and we attend a lot of the same functions because our common friends are our age with young children. We are best friends and are at the stage where we just started talking about marriage. I am 100% committed to supporting his Islamic faith (I have attended prayers on Friday at Masjid, been to Eid celebrations, as well as hosted “get togethers” at my house with all of our Muslim friends. He has been very honest with me and said that his wish for me is to become a good Muslim woman. I respect him and want to make sure that I am not doing anything to jeapordize his religious convictions or mine. My experience with my church has always been positive and I cannot walk away from what I have known and been taught all my life. I would appreciate your perspective relevant to us getting married or do we cut off our friendship. Thank you for listening and may Allah bless you.
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Written by pdxgirl on January 17th, 2008 with 1 comment.
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salam im 18yr old n i nd help big time i have commimted sooooo many sins n i dnt think allah will eva 4give me n i dnt balme him wel 1st of all i have fallen in luv n i gt pregnant i wntd 2 kp da baby bt my partner said it was 4 da best if we didnt afta tat i gt drunk twice both time regetd it i dnt knw y i do it cnt help myslf nw my partner wnts 2b m8z e said tat he dnt luv me no mre n cnt belive wat i am doing………………..i jst wnt sme1 2 show me hw 2 live wid myslf inside of me is dead y should allah s.w.t 4give me he should h8 me………….how do i ask 4 4givness??? PLZ HELP
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Written by saima786 on January 17th, 2008 with 1 comment.
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I live in USA with my husband and we are very liberal muslims. I do not cover but recently I started Salat. I am a student and I will be in MS program soon. My husband got his MS and he is working as an adjunct teacher at a University. When we got married 5 years ago it was a love marriage and I convinced my dad. But My mom did not behave well with my in-laws which resulted in a bitter relationship between my parents and my in-laws. About 3 years ago my mother in law died in a car accident in USA. Then after 1 year my mother and brother came to visit me. That time my husband misbehaved with my mom and that resulted in a bitter relationship with him and my family. This year my dad came to visit me after 4 years and everything went well. Then last month I had some arguments with my husband and he showed hatred towards my family. Just 1 week ago he told me I can go visit my family but he will not let them come visit us. I opposed and since then he is treating me with rudeness and cruelty. I don’t have any kids. What should I do?
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Written by yjahir on January 17th, 2008 with no comments.
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salam sister
i want to pose a question, i wanted to know because i have been married only recently i wanted to know if during the month of ramadan if it is permissible to have any form of sexual intercourse during the month,im aware that you can’t when you are fasting but need to know are you allowed any other time hence night.
please can you clarify this for me
shanaz
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Written by begums on January 17th, 2008 with no comments.
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assalaaamualaikum
i am here to solve few of my doubts………first thing i would like to know is that…..does islam allow love??
if a boy and girl are in love…….and they get married…….is their married acceptable???
and second thing is that ….if i pray that i want to marry the girl whom i love…….will my dua be acceptable?? because i heard from few people that such kind of duas are not acceptable…….where as i heard from many people…..that if a person makes a prayer with an intention then his intention is fulfilled…..like wise if a man makes a prayer with an intention that he wants to get married with the girl he loves,he will get the girl he desired for……….is it true??
please help me out……………..ill be thankful to all of you for responding to my post:)
ALLAH HAFIZ
AND ASSALAAMUALAIKUM
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Written by munna on January 17th, 2008 with no comments.
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Hi I am hindu i met one omani guy who is arab and proposed me I too liked him and am ready to embrace islam but i am really worried he may marry another women after some time. how many women a muslim man can marry? does he need to take permission of wife? or just like that he brings a new wife? I can’t ask him directly coz it hurts him any one pls answer me…
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Written by lava on July 16th, 2007 with no comments.
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If a wife spent her 20 years with her husband with dedication and faith. After 20 years she fall in love with another man she use to know before marriage. She wanted to make sacrifice for her 4 children but she could not continue to forget her lover. Mind it they both are true muslims and say 5 prayers and tahajjud. The husband knows everything and try to give good guidance to her, but she is so involved that she just wanted to leave evrything for him. In this situation what does the husband do when she is never with him even when she is beside him. What does quran and islam says about this relationship. I have clues which shows that they also develop illict relationships. Their point is that everything happens with God’s Will and maybe he wants to do this at this time.
I will really appreciate if I get some guidance in the light of Quran and Sunnah.
Thanks
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Written by jhinusa on May 13th, 2007 with no comments.
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Asalamu aleykum,
I am planning to marry somebody I am in love with, and have been in love with, for four years. We are both Muslims but from different sects; he’s Sunni and I’m Shia. I don’t think my parents would object to us getting married based on that, BUT they will based on his skin colour.
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Written by admd on March 22nd, 2007 with 4 comments.
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