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Is it permissible for a girl to leave home to escape abuse?(8)

February 8, 2012

I am a 21 year old girl. My mother torments me and encourages my brother to beat me. I can’t take any more of this insane family, can I leave home and live alone?

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I’m fed up with my husband’s unemployment and abusive family

Salam,
I’m a 30-year-old woman with a 2-year-old child and inshallah 1 on the way. I’ve been married for almost 3 years now and living with my in-laws.
My husband worked in the first year and then stopped working due to a lack of work from his employers. He never bothered and tried to look for work after that. My father-in-law sold his business and gambled most of the money. So they were also left with no income.

Abusive cheating father and violent brother

Please help me on what should I do with my dad. My brothers and my mum, we have no life, its all just arguments one after the other and with my dad total silence. And I don’t think I can take it. I stay up to hours in my room crying and thinking how shall I handle things as my mum looks to me for advice and help and I’m stuck. I’ve been brought up so dependent on others due to being so protected that I can’t take the next step forward, as I always stop and think how it will affect my mum.

Unstable harmony – beatings by husband who loves me

My arms which were smooth are now covered in scars. He kicks me in my belly, he hits me in the face, chokes me, anyhow, becomes very violent. And when I kick back or push him away, he says I am very wrong for doing so. I should never even come close to pushing my husband. He beats me because I were to become disobedient. And it’s true that I have some issues with obedience. I sometimes can’t keep up. There are lots of things I need to change, but I can’t do it in one day, one month or even one year, it takes time. I do want to change.


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