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I am a Christian and I love a Muslim girl

Posted by • July 6, 2012 • Printer-friendly
A Muslim confused about marrying a Christian

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I am a Christian.

Am in love with a Muslim girl. Can i continue this relation?

give a good answer...

I dont want to miss her.

- lachu


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  1. iman
    July 6, 2012 • 11:36 am

    I am glad that you pose the question in this regard .

    Well you cannot continue . even if there is a guy and girl both are muslim they cant have boyfriend -girl friend relationship ! Its prohibited.

    So your case is completely void. Neither you nor she will be happy if you go on with her.. If you love her. Then try to love Islam because if AND ONLY IF YOU ACCEPT ISLAM THEN U CAN MARRY HER. BUT U CANT ACCEPT ISLAM MERELY FOR HER.

    You should have understanding and love for islam indeed am sure you will love to learn about islam and do learn from the authentic source. Read the interpretation of QURAn beseech the local imam to make you understand the basic fundamentals and beliefs in islam .Because the only religion acceptable in the sight of Allah swt is Islam.

    If you continue to prelong this relation you will put her in hell with sins.. Do you like your love to be punished for the sins which you give to her?!! Ponder before its too late

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  2. ali yousuff
    July 6, 2012 • 1:15 pm

    DEAR CHRISTIAN BROTHER.
    YOU CALL GOD THE FATHER WHOM WE CALL ALLAH ANE HE IS GIVING YOU CHANCE TO COME BACK TO HIM BECAUSE PAUL FABRICATED THE TRINITY AND TODAY YOU ARE LIVING IN THE DELUSION FO THAT DOGMA-

    BIBLE VERSION OF JESUS REJECTING THE TRINTARIANS.
    ACCEPTING ONLY UNITARIANS[THOSE WHO BELIEVED THAT JESUS WAS A MIGHTY PROPHET OF GOD] THE PAULINE CHRISTIANS WILL BE TOLD HE NEVER KNEW THEM. MATHEW-7-21
    “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only he who does the Will of the Father who is in Heaven. Many will say to me on the day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and in your name drive out demons and perform many miracles?’ Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!”
    QURAN VERSION JESUS REJECTING THE TRINIATRIANS-
    And behold! Allah will say: "O Jesus the son of Mary! Didst thou say unto men, worship me and my mother as gods in derogation of Allah'?" He will say: "Glory to Thee! never could I say what I had no right (to say). Had I said such a thing, thou wouldst indeed have known it. Thou knowest what is in my heart, Thou I know not what is in Thine. For Thou knowest in full all that is hidden.SURAH AL-MAEDA (THE TABLE, THE TABLE SPREAD)Verse NO-116
    JUST READ THE HISTORY HOW UNITY OF GOD WAS ABOLISHED AND TRINITY WAS ESTABLISHED.
    http://www.strictlybiblical.org/Doctrine%20Teachings/Information/Emperor%20Constantine2.htm
    A major turning point in Christian history occurred when the Roman Emperor Constantine converted to Christianity. Whether this conversion was sincere or politically motivated, historians can only speculate. But the result was the end of persecution of Christians and the beginning of Christendom.called pauline christianity.the concept of trinty which defy's the God of abrahamall the prophets and jesus himself.

    SO IF YOU REALLY LOVE GOD AND THEN THAT GIRL PL TRY TO UNDERSTAND THAT THE GAME OF TRINITY WAS POLITICAL GAME BY THE EMPEROR TO SAFE GAURD HIS KSNGDOM-

    IF ANY MORE DETAIL YOU NEED PL FEEL FREE TO ASK I WILL GIVE YOU THE BEST EXPLANATION ON CHRISTIANITY WHICH IS PAULINE CHRISTIANITY A PAGAN CULT FROM THE ROMANS SUN GOD[FORE THAT ONLY THE SATURDAY SABATH WAS CHANGED TO SUNDAY FOR THE WORSHIP OF SUN GOD AND NAMED SUN DAY A HOLIY-DAY...
    REGARDS
    ALI YOUSUFF

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  3. AmericanMuslim
    July 6, 2012 • 2:02 pm

    Iachu

    There is only one only way you can proceed. She is forbidden in Islam to marry outside of the faith.

    However, this is a great opportunity for you. Sometimes Allah (God) works in a very clever manner. We cannot know the plan of Allah for you and this woman. However, you CAN begin on a path to see what the will of Allah for you is.

    I was formerly a Christian, but I reverted to Islam, so I know what I am talking about. The God you worship is Allah. But his message has been deluted and corrupted by men, who mis-interpreted it and mis-translated it. When you reach out to Allah, this will become clear. Allah has been with you all along. Allow yourself to see Him fully and embrace Him.

    Take the affection you feel for this woman, and use it to inspire you to study the Qur'an. You will gain insight into her and her religion by doing this. But you must study it with a clean and open heart. You cannot put this woman above Allah.

    When you study it, you will see how what you are doing has put her at risk. How Shaytan (Satan), has whispered into your ear to do something that is not allowed. You do not mention how this woman feels about you, but Shaytan may have whispered in her ear as well. She cannot have such a relationship.

    Study the Qur'an with the idea that you want to show her the respect and honor she deserves. The Qur'an will show you how you can act in a proper manner. But also read the Qur'an to show yourself how you can respect and honor yourself by submitting to the will of Allah.

    If you truly love her, you will respect her and her faith above your wants, needs, and desires.

    If, after beginning on this path, you submit to Allah and become a Muslim, there is always the possibility for the two of you to be together as husband and wife. But if you have truly submitted to His will, you will allow Allah to choose the proper wife for you, and your feelings for your current love will not be your primary concern, instead your concern will be to please Allah.

    If Allah guides you to Islam, and grants you a pious Muslim wife, your love, respect, and honor for your wife will outshine the love you now feel many times over, and you life will be immeasurably better.

    AmericanMuslim
    IslamicAnswers.com editor

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  4. Nadia
    July 6, 2012 • 3:51 pm

    First of all Muslims don't date, it's forbidden. If you want to continue this relation then you both must get married, and make is halal(pure).If you both decide to get married then you have to convert to Islam because in Islam a Muslim woman cannot marry a non Muslim man and if she does, it is considered fornication until the man converts. Also, if you want to convert just to marry the Muslim woman, then it will be mistake, it has to come from your heart.

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