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Many people from many cultures tend to encourage to have subr on such matter. well, this is not according to islam teaching because patience has its place NOT on every issue. Patience should be practiced on matters that are above our control for example your husband is ill, he does not have enough money, he can not have kids etc. BUt Subr on this matter is not right, your doing dhulma on your nafs. Because he is truely, evidently not a practice muslim by faith or ibadah. By keep eccepting this, there are probabilities you can destroy the khulq of your children. They will one day discover this and follow this role model.
He is dirty and can not live with beliver untill he change. Live for the sake of Allah, there is NO such thing as stay for the sake of allah.

Amna

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I am 26 years old, I was very normal with full erections and one day a While masturbating realised that I am ejaculating quickly, So for treatment for premature Ejac referred an hyderabad newspaper which had ads of some 'sriram herbals' , I bought that and while eating for 6-7 days I realised I have totally lost my erection, no matter what U do it wont come up, And would become hard in the flaccid state with no size at all, So to rectify this I went to a hakim (Unani DOC) as everybody had advised NO ALLOPATHY as it has no permanent cure, So that Doc gave me some Halwa and upon consuming I was normal once again with the Premature ejc thing still intact so I asked this Doc to treat me for that as well and he was kind enuff and gave me a certain course for 3 months, While eating that medication I developed Continious constipation, I would be constipated and no form of gas or stool would go out how much ever I strain, That straining caused pressure on rectum and when ever I am constipated I lose erections, No erections if constipated and constipation is a daily thing now, If I eat laxatives I pass out or else Its there itself, Keeping this on the backburner I again took medications for P.E and as I ate the medicine I got severely constipated so now unable to have any medicines , as it is constipated all the time and if constipated having no erections at all, Cannot go for any sort of treatment as it is worsening the case, Been to allopathic docs who says eat fruits , change lifestyle etc etc, But the problem has multiplied and hs become serious now as I have three complications now: Low or no erections, If erected PE, and above all constipation. Dont know whom to speak to , Just embarassed and frustated that if I havent been there for PE i would have been normal today..Please suggest me if u can or else pray hard for mee..!

Your brother should have known better to mix and ruin his own family's reputation before he chose to engage in haraam activities. Don't blame the girl for everything, your brother played a major sin too. They should never marry, your family is forcing the girl to change and believe you me even if she don't she will bring that child up how she wants it she is the mother, it is her right not yours or anyone else 's. Your family is wasting their time seems to me your brother was happy how she was in the first place. The family shouldn't get involved let them sort it out ie their differences. If that don't work let them apart and your brother to take full responsibility for the child, you or your family has no right to request that child to be a muslim this will depend on the girl and your brother either way that child has been born in two races, religions not one. It may hurt you by me being honest but trust me i know what i am talking about children will always find out when they get older who and where they came from some may change and others learn to except ISLAM but i also hope this child does have the opportunity to chose and not be made too choose and another family shattered into pieces.