Comments on: I Committed Sins and I Hate My Life http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/depressed-and-suicidal/ Common Sense Answers to Islamic Marriage and Family Questions Wed, 19 Nov 2008 17:04:29 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.0.5 by: Hana http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/depressed-and-suicidal/#comment-10928 Sat, 31 May 2008 14:38:44 +0000 http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/depressed-and-suicidal/#comment-10928 Al Salam Alaykom Dear sister i am a 21 years old Mulimah tow.And i sinned alot, i know exactly what you are going through. And i ve been thinking about this.Well Allah sobhanahouwa taala, is the creator of everything.He also created time.Present time the future and the past.if you consider this creation of Allah SwT you will see that there is a big moral in the fact that no one can ever re-make the past.while we can allways maake plans for the future,inshallah. Now what is done is allready done.You may feel the urge to erase all of your history.You can.when you believe.Allah is capable of fixing all these things.think about your future, and try to be effective.give advises to people of your community, prevent them from being where you once were.Learn Hadiths, learn Coran, so that you become able to give full convincing informations,have a full scheduel and surround yourself with people, who are interested in knowing a new Good person. I advise you not to share your past life stories with anyone who might be not trust worthy. because there are persons who will remind you of it every once and a while. You are now too ashamed to face the present. Make things that will make our Prophet Mohamad inshallah proud of you. I will pray for you inshallah.pray for me too :) Al Salam Alaykom
Dear sister i am a 21 years old Mulimah tow.And i sinned alot, i know exactly what you are going through.
And i ve been thinking about this.Well Allah sobhanahouwa taala, is the creator of everything.He also created time.Present time the future and the past.if you consider this creation of Allah SwT you will see that there is a big moral in the fact that no one can ever re-make the past.while we can allways maake plans for the future,inshallah.
Now what is done is allready done.You may feel the urge to erase all of your history.You can.when you believe.Allah is capable of fixing all these things.think about your future, and try to be effective.give advises to people of your community, prevent them from being where you once were.Learn Hadiths, learn Coran, so that you become able to give full convincing informations,have a full scheduel and surround yourself with people, who are interested in knowing a new Good person.
I advise you not to share your past life stories with anyone who might be not trust worthy. because there are persons who will remind you of it every once and a while.
You are now too ashamed to face the present.
Make things that will make our Prophet Mohamad inshallah proud of you.
I will pray for you inshallah.pray for me too :)

]]> by: wael http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/depressed-and-suicidal/#comment-10692 Sun, 29 Jul 2007 01:05:39 +0000 http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/depressed-and-suicidal/#comment-10692 RealDealMuslimah, you have made an important point. It was thoughtless of me not to consider the possibility of mental illnesss or clinical depression. I will keep in mind this possibility in the future Insha'Allah. I will go back and insert this advice into the original article itself, because some people who need this advice may not read these comments. Jazak Allah khayr for your contribution. RealDealMuslimah, you have made an important point. It was thoughtless of me not to consider the possibility of mental illnesss or clinical depression. I will keep in mind this possibility in the future Insha’Allah. I will go back and insert this advice into the original article itself, because some people who need this advice may not read these comments. Jazak Allah khayr for your contribution.

]]> by: RealDealMuslimah http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/depressed-and-suicidal/#comment-10691 Sat, 28 Jul 2007 10:49:17 +0000 http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/depressed-and-suicidal/#comment-10691 Salaam'Alaikum One of the leading causes of suicide is from untreated and undiagnosed clinical mental illness. If you are depressed, and are truly suicidal, you should consult a psychiatrist or a primary care physician as soon as possible. The majority of people who are suicidal are clinically depressed and require medication to function normally, and stabilize themselves. They lack the ability to control these types of thoughts becuase their thinking is distorted. The filter through which they view the world is flawed becuase of a chemical imbalance. Faith may not always be enough for people are clinically depressed. This can actually become dangerous becuase they are bound to feel they have failed or are unloved by Allah which reinforces their depression. Seek professional help. www.coping.org Salaam’Alaikum

One of the leading causes of suicide is from untreated and undiagnosed clinical mental illness.

If you are depressed, and are truly suicidal, you should consult a psychiatrist or a primary care physician as soon as possible.

The majority of people who are suicidal are clinically depressed and require medication to function normally, and stabilize themselves. They lack the ability to control these types of thoughts becuase their thinking is distorted. The filter through which they view the world is flawed becuase of a chemical imbalance.

Faith may not always be enough for people are clinically depressed. This can actually become dangerous becuase they are bound to feel they have failed or are unloved by Allah which reinforces their depression.

Seek professional help.

www.coping.org

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