Dua against bad dua; love and family
I have a question about a good friend of mine. She is muslim and she wanted to marry a guy, he has become muslim. Unfortunately they cannot arrange the marriage because the family of the girl is against their marriage. They say that he cannot be a muslim like them and he has become muslim only for her. The boy's family also disagreed.
They (the boy and the girl) accepted it and they both had a very difficult time, but they were still friends afther that. They accepted their parents' dicision. No one accepted their relationship, nore as friends, nore as a couple. They were only friends after the problems with the family.
The girl's parents said that they will give a bad dua if they won't stop seeying each other. After a while the bad dua started to work. The guy who has become muslim had started an affair with some other non muslim/ kaafir girl and he has got some very bad influence of her, that's why it seems that the boy leaved Islam behind. He said to my friend (the girl) that he doesn't want her as her friend or partner, becouse of her parents opinion. He said that he has buried her in her heart and that he has given Islam the same place.
My friend (the girl) is almost depressive. She thinks that the bad dua has worked out on their relationship and friendship. The guy has become a non- muslim/ kaafir again and he has a non- muslim girlfriend.
My friend (the girl) knows that in Islam is a relationship as girlfriend/ boyfriend forbidden/ Haram and she won't do such a thing. She thinks that the bad dua of her parents has worked out and she thinks that she is now suffering because she was doing wrong things (things against Islam). I agree with that.
But I think that Allah has brought the two of them together. Nobody knows wether they are meant for each other or not. But I can see so much love in their eyes for each other, over and over again. Everyone was so jealous about their friendship. I think their is also an evil eye on them/ nazar.
I am questioning because I really care about my friend, she is so depressed and do a lot of dua's but I can see that it's not good for her health, she worries a lot. It is almost a year later, but she still thinks a lot about it. I am very worried and I want to see them together again InshAllah.
I have a few questions:
- does real love exist in Islam?
- is it forbidden to love someone in Islam?
- do you know a dua against Bad dua/ cursing prayer?
- how can the guy be muslim again?
- what is the best thing to do/ what can my friend do now?
Thank you very very much for the answers.
I don't know if they are ever coming together but I still hope you can answer my questions. Still we all believe that the thing is going to happen that Allah wants to be..
PLEASE help us out, any kind of answers will be appreciated.
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