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Dua for having true love for someone in my heart

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i want a dua for having true love for some one in my heart
- fauzia


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  1. As salamu alaykum,

    This question makes me think, you want to love from Heart to someone, Alhamdulillah, you are open to the Straight, you are loving already, Masha´Allah, when someone asks for that means that is conscious of the capacity to love this way, Alhamdulillah.

    This is for me one of the Highest expressions of real love, if you are able to see a person with the black and the white and all the tones of greys around and you are able to accept that person without judging as this person is, Alhamdulillah, from the depths of your Heart you will love this person, maybe a little seed of love like a seed of mustard, but if you take care appropiately of this seed, you will see a strong powerful tree of love, insha´Allah.

    When you get closer to Allah(swt) all the hardened bits in the Heart melt and fall down and you don´t know why but every situation turns to be in its right place, you can look at people and situations from a different perspective, it easier to deal with emotions and it is easier to recognize and to look for the healthiest way of being, Alhamdulillah, then instead of recommending you a dua, I would recommend you the all pack, Adhan, salat on time, reading, understanding and reciting the Quran, reciting the Names of Allah(swt) and His attributes and make all the duas you want to, to keep Allah(swt) in your mind, mouth and acts (Alhamdulillah, Bismillah, Insha´Allah, Subhana´Allah, La hwla qwata illah billah, La ilaha illah Allah, ,......) sister this is the begining and the most beautiful fact is that is has no end, Alhamdulillah. Deeper is your Love towards Allah(swt) easier will be to get in touch with real love towards the rest of the Humanity, Alhamudlillah, insha´Allah.

    All my Unconditional Respect,

    María
    IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  2. Assalamu alaykum Fauzia,

    Du'aa is not just a few words in Arabic to learn and say, but du'aa means calling upon Allah. It can be straight from the heart, in the words you like, in the language you prefer.

    Allah knows all languages and secrets of hearts. So pray to Him as you like. Pray for good and bear in mind, Allah knows best we don't. So if you are not granted something, be sure Allah knows what is best for you and if not in dunya Insha Allah in aakhiraah you shall have all good that you desire.

    As far as love is concerned, keep it for after marriage if it is for a guy you ask.

    If you ask about love for mankind, then there are actions mentioned in the Qur'an which draw you closer to it. So Insha Allah if you read the Qur'an with meanings you shall know what Allah prescribes for us in general as our behavior towards mankind.

    Hope this helps.

    Salaam.
    Your brother.

  3. sister, the person you would like to claim this dua to,is very fortunate to have some-one like you who wants to exclaim this.We as muslims are un-able to phsically show our feelings before we enter nikah(marriage).I from personally experience,know that when you love some-one you just have that feeling that you want to shout out to the world, "i love (so and so)". But the greatest love you can shout out is to eachother.The feelings and emotions you show eachother are what counts the most. I hope you understand that allah understands all ways of communications,therefore it doesnt matter which way you want too claim ur love.Say it in any language,allah will hear you out. Inshallah this will help you out. from ur sister of islam, Humayra

  4. your asking for something... which will take you where you will forget your self.... true love really changes all your life... sister... sometymz.... it can take you more closer to Allah.... i know many will not agree.. but trust me.. it does... you make dua for someone to be yours.... and you do not realize when it will become you habbit to ask from Allah...in love many tyms you will feel helpless then you will find no other way// and.. you will ask Allah to help..... when you will feel lyke lossing dat "someone".. you will ask Allah to help... again and again your will be more closer to Allah...
    it is my perosnal experiance........when it happend to me.. i realized dat.. now i am a better muslim.. i trust Allah i am faihfull and i understand all da things which Allah choses for us.. and i know how to be patient..... My love changed my life... and for dis... he is so really special for me... Alhumdulilah is all wid da grace of Allah.. i know Allah made him for me.. and i know he is result of my dua.. sometimes... Allah makes other different ways.. to reach him.....
    and for me... my love for someone.. became da path to get more closer to Allah.. to be more faithfull......... Alhumdulilah.. Allah alwayz listens to you.. Allah is alwayz the most benificant... Allhumdulilah.....Allah is great..

  5. Asalamalikum,my problem is i was 8th pregnent my husband along with the male servant went to farm to spend sometime alone there he told this while going,after few weeks i came to know that he went with his friends & two call girls & 3-4 friends my sister-i-law & servant told me so i ask him 1st he told me that nobody went with him...

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  6. asalamalikum
    hi every1 i badly need advice as i realy dont knwoe wat 2 do xcpt death
    i love a muslim gurl so much n i beleve in allah i even fast for ramzan n i badly need
    some help. The gurl mum decided to get her married with some1 else bt she dont want to get married to sme1 else as we love each other truely n deeply n even her mum dont want 2 know abt mi. plz help mi out if zers any dua i can make or some1 culd gve mi a gud adive plzzz i beg u all
    thks

  7. Assalamo Alaykom.

    Here is the dua:1." Allahumma! Inniy as'aluka bihubbika hubba(then mention the person) idhaa yanfa'uney hubbaho endaka fiy diyniy wa dunyayaa wal aakhiratiy. Allahumma! Audhoobika min hubbi(mention the name of the person) idhaa yadhurroney hubboho endaka fiy deeniy wa dunyayaa wa a'khirahtiy. 2. Allahumma! akhluf liy hubban khayran yanfa'uney wa hubban ahsanu min hubbihi idhaa lam yanfahney hubboho endaka fiy deeniy wa dunayaya wa akhiratiy. 3. Allahumma! Innaka Anta Allaamul ghuyoob! Anaa min ummati habeebika, nabiyyika, Muhammadin Salawa'tuka wa sala'muka alayhi wa alaa ahlihi salaatan kaameelatan wa tasleemah. Allahumma! birahmatika wa bihubbika, fa ab'ath ilayya bahlan saalihan likhutbatiy . Rabbiy! limaa anjalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer.Allahumma! waqineey minal haraam. 4. Rabbanaa aatiney wa baarik ley fiddunya wal'akhirah zawjan sa'lihan hasanan jameelan, wadoodan, sabooran, muhsliman, muhminan,mukhlisan, wa muflihan fid dunya wal a'akhira,wa maqboolan dua'uho daiman endaka, .Allahumma anta rabbiy! aamantu bika wa alayka tawakkaltu wa maa tawfeeqiy illa bika.5. Rabbanaa atinaa fid dunyaa hasanatan wa fil aakhirati hasanatan waqinaa adha'aban naar. Aameen!!!

    1.Ya Allah! Truly I (need) to ask(request from ) you by your love the love of( the name of the guy) if his love benefits me in my religion, in my world and in my hereafter. Ya Allah! I take refuge in you from his(mention the name of person) love
    if his love harms me in my religion, in my world and hereafter.2.Ya Allah! substitute for me a goodly love that benefits me better than his love if his love never benefits me in my religion, my world, and my hereafter.
    3. Ya Allah!Truly, you know the unseen, I am from the Ummah of you beloved prophet Muhammad(May your complete blessings and peace be upon him and his family). Ya Allah! by your mercy and by your love, send to me a righteous man to propose to marry me. O my God! whatever you send to me I am desperately in need.Ya Allah! save me from committing(i.e. Zina, etc.).4.O our Lord! give me and bless me with husband whos is righteous, good,handsome,very loving, very patient, muslim, faithful,sincere, successful in this world and the hereafter, and whose dua is always accepted by you.Ya Allah! You are my God. I believe in you and I trust wholeheartedly and I will never succeed or prosper except by your help. 5. O our Lord! give us good in this world and good in the hereafter and save us from punishment of Hell-fire. Ameen.

  8. Mr AbuAhmad can u plz tell the refrence to the above mentioned dua/?

  9. @ Mahreeb
    The source is not important - the content it. It is similar to the DUa for Istikhara and has been modified slightly from it. Allah (SWT) listens to ANY dua which comes from the heart and wth full faith in Him - as long as it does not have anything to harm someone

  10. I have fallen to love, and when ever i try to skip my love, i feel more to it, for islam point of view how can i get to my love, YAH ALLAH y life that difficult>?

  11. Salam to u.brother my wife n I have Divorce each other.we both have two kids between us.pls brother I need my wife to come back home with my kids.she never listen to me or follow the Islam religion and activity.she always acts like she is single girl and always ready to have affair with other man.my mother in law is a very bad influence between us n always brain washing her.she doesn't respect me n my family.always doing wrong thinks.wat should I do or do u have any dua for this pls help me.was Salam .

    • Faheem, why do you want her back? It doesn't sound like she is a good woman or a good wife.

      Wael
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  12. Salaam,

    I feel like there's more to this question.
    We obviously cant force someone to feel the same way abt us, until and unless it comes naturally.
    You can ask Allah to do what is right for you and since He knows what is in all our hearts He knows ur intentions too.

    But if your question is for a dua to ask Allah(SWT) for a dua to have someone to have true love for you in their heart, I sincerely think if you ask Him from the heart HE will listen. Just be honest and straightup in what you ask and inshAllah he will grant. I know how u feel as im in a similar situation as u.

    tc

    • Noorkh, Allah SWT listening vs Allah SWT granting what you desire are two very different things. Imagine what the world would be like if everyone got exactly what they asked for? We have to be content that Allah SWT listens to our every dua from the heart. But, He will give us what He wants, not what we want.

  13. i know I advised this person to ask Allah (SWT) for whatever she desired in her heart.
    But do you guys really think "true love" realy exists?

  14. AOA. my name is m.azaz ali khan i m 20 years old ...i love a girl soo much her name is mahnam ejaz she is 17 years old .... sooo what can i do to convince her to marry with me i like her soo much but i think she dont ??? plzzzz telll me ... i m waiting for your responce ...

    • M.Azaz, you can have your family go to her family with a proposal of marriage. If they refuse (or if the girl refuses) then there's you must accept her decision and leave her alone.

      Wael
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  15. I love someone but he don't love me

  16. Asa true love does exist an hamduiallah its so great Inshallah I would love for yall to know that felling

  17. Hiii everyone... I want to say that I love someone a lot he loves me too.. BT he is married ... he marry to her cousin just because of some family issues I m very tense cox his family n my family are against with our relation... I want some dua for my problems please help me

  18. Sir..plz help me ..m in love with hindu boy..
    And having sex many times..I want to marry with him but he is not ready...plz help me ...what can I do for getting my love back..plzz

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