Engaged to my cousin but she is ignoring me
I am engaged to my cousin whom I admire since my childhood. I told her and she knows how much I love her. She said she loved someone else but because her father told her we want you to get engaged with your cousin she accepted the proposal.
Last time she came to my country we had a great time with each other, in fact I gave her gifts and we spoke for like three hours on phone, but when she was leaving back to her country, I told her to call me as soon she reaches, but I didnt get any call from her side.
Just now I came to know that she uses facebook and communicates with na mahram and I'm afraid her past love, but she didnt even tell me that she uses facebook. I feel like there could be two possibilities of her not telling me:
1) She is afraid that once I find out about her communication with other men, I'll tell her to stop it. And she won't say no because she doesn't want to spoil our engagement.
2) I feel she ignores me and doesn't want to talk to me and avoid me until marriage (as she wants to live carefree life until marriage).
Besides, her parents are also strict in this case. Please give me any advice from islamic point of view. Should I talk to her or leave her? Should I pray to Allah and stay patient? Or should I tell my father to talk to her family. I'm sure on one thing she doesnt want to end this relationship with me. Please also pray for me.
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