My ex-wife wants to come back to me now after I divorced her.
Assalam O Alaikum,
My name is Khdeer and I am from New Delhi. I got married in 2009 and we were very happily living together. A friend of my sister used to come to hour house who was very friendly; we use to play games to pass the time. After our marriage; I told my wife about her that she is just a friend and don’t think anything wrong. My wife understood everything I told but her mother started having doubts after two months and so my wife started to harrass me. First my wfie gave her permission to come to our house after knowing the truth but now she has changed. So, she doesn’t want her to come to our house anymore and she reported to police and said that she is having illegal relationships with me. Police called us both (my friend and me) to police where she told them that we are just friends and nothing else. She also promised that she will never visit my house again and didn’t mean to cause any trouble and signed a contract in police station.
So, she stopped coming to our house but one day she called me and told me that she is suffering from chekengunay(?); suffering from joint pain and can’t walk to see that doctor for examination today. She asked me if I could take her to doctor. I thought that she needs me but what if any of my wife’s relatives saw me? This sure will cause problem. I decided to take her to the doctor for examination and left everything on Allah (swt). I dropped her at examination center; one of uncle of my wife saw us together and thought we are going out together. My wife started harassing me again even I expalained to her everything that happend between us that day. My mother tried to convince them and they pretended like they understood and are OK now. But, one day my mother-in-law came to our house and asked us to send my wife with her for three days; my mother agreed to send my wife.
Three days passed but my wife didn’t come back; when I asked them to send her back; they said that they don’t believe me and said that I was going to marry my friend. They said that I was going to buy a house and said that my friend is already pregnant and they don’t believe what I say. They asked me that my wife will come to stay with me on one condition which is, if I sell my property and buy a house near my in-laws and house must be on my wife’s name. I didn’t agree to this condition but I begged to them and promised to never repeat again and asked them to believe me. They didn’t believe me so I sent my elders to convince them to return my wife. They said no, then I sent the lawyer to convince them and they refused again. I sent her lawyer’s notice but my wife didn’t reply then I went to court and they issued another notice which they refused to accept. After one month course decided a one sided decision.
I applied for divorce in course as per Islamic law. After one year I told her relatives to please take whatever belongs to her as we are looking for another match for me. They said that they are sending their daughter back. When I begged them to send her back to me they didn’t but now they are sending her to me when I divorced her and she is not in contract with me. She left me on my own for one and a half year; how can I trust her now? Now she wants us to live together, she harasses me to shif to her mother house with my mother and everything. I live with my mother who is a widow; I don’t know what is wrong with this woman. I am confused and don’t know what to do?
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