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I watch haraam things, how can I get rid of this bad habit

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I am a 19 year old Muslim boy, I offer namaz 5 times regularly and I am good to all of my relatives and respect them, I never even saw girls on walking on street or any where, I just put my eyes down whenever saw a girl and I respect my islamic sisters.
Anyhow I cannot read quran regularly because of my exams, every one is very happy from me because of my attitude with them, but  the problem im facing for last five years is that I used to saw bad wallpapers and videos of girls on t.v and computer, and masturbate, since 2009.

I watch them once or twice in a month or two, but in 2010 when my father connected net on computer, I used to watch porn sites on them, I gave up some months ago but now again I watch them too much. And after masturbate I will b too ashamed against Allah, but I dont let my prayers waste, I offer them daily and I pray 4 my forgiveness.. but I do that mistake again and again, please please help me get rid of this sin........ please !!

- Pakistani


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7 Responses »

  1. Dont give up, pray over it again and again, it will go away

  2. Islam gives an answer to this question

    If you are not able to satisfy your sexual desires get married. If not then fast once or twice in a week. Or whenever you feel its difficult for you to control start fasting. It will give you ease.

    Regards

  3. BrOTHER YOU NEED TO MARRY ................ITS BETTER SOLUTION.

  4. Best solition is marriage , and yet if u don't afford marriage , start fasting and astagfar , inshallah u will be free from this sin

  5. You Can Use The 2 Raka'ah Solution My Brother,it Wil Surely Work.Insha Alahl

  6. You are a good boy. Mashallah. The repentance you have is sign of good Muslim. But brother if u can get married. Best option. N next if u try to do this kind of sin, just imagine ALLAH is watching you. If u can’t commit sin in front of people then why in front of ALLAH. I hope this help you. In Sha allah

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