He’s obsessed with me, but I don’t know what to do
salaams, i am going out with a guy i've been with since i was sixteen, and i am now 24. i have had sexual relations with this person.
I now realise how stupid i have been and i am asking for forgiveness from Allah sw as well as trying to do the right thing by praying my namaaz 5 times and i am trying so hard to be a better person. I no longer want to be do bad things but i am forced by this guy i am with, he can be a bad influence and i have made it clear to him i dont want to see him outside of marriage anymore.
He has always been obsessive from the moment i met him, he was married when i met him, he never said he was married and i found out 2 years ago. since then he has been separated from her and has applied for divorce as he doesnt want to be with her and wants to be with me.
I love him and i am praying to allah sw that his divorce is sorted quick so that we can get married as i no longer want to live in sin. I would give up talking to him but i am really scared that he will do something as he has already tried when i stopped any sort of contact with him. He got hold of my home number and kept on ringing threatening to tell my parents everything. I can't go out without him following me as he sits in his car on my street waiting for me to come out. I know that if i ignored him he will seriously do something and he will not let me go. [Speaking of past experiences when i have tried to finish with him when i found out about him being married]. He won't listen to me and he makes excuses like he cant live without meeting up with me and talking to me over the phone. He has always been obsessive and i have tried to tell him we cant talk anymore until his divorce is sorted and he comes round to talk to my parents.
I cant talk to my parents about this as i know they would kick me out if they found out. I dont know what to do. Please give me advice on what i should do. Jazakallah
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