How can I learn to un-love my husband?
Assalam Alaikum. I want to know what do you do when you're trying to un-love your husband. I want to be a good wife to him and be a Muslim wife to him, but I just don't want to love him no more. Our marriage life isn't what I was looking for - I want someone who treat like they really love me and look at me like they do, and he only do that sometimes I want it everytime. My husband is older than me by eight years so I don't know if that's the problem or what. And we been together for three years and been having problems having a baby. Help what should I do?
Khadija15
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How do you show your love to your husband? What do you want your husband to do so that you feel loved?
Marriage is hard my dear, it's not a walk in the park for anyone.
If you want love, give him love.
If you want respect, give him respect and you will see how your relationship changes.
It's easy to blame others, ...he doesn't show me love....you have to show him love and tell him what you expect out of a relationship.
Have an open discussion about what you want in the marriage, don't just expect it without telling him anything.
When he comes home, smile and hug him.
Dress up and look your best.
Just do whatever makes him happy and be affectionate with him, love is infectious.
Make him his favourite food? Surprise him with something he likes.
Send him a text message at work when he least expects it and tell him how important he is to you.
Hope this helps.
brilliant suggestions ma'am. second you!
And please go to a doctor about baby difficulties if you have not. They can do a lot to help you.
It's a medical problem and with a bit of help, you can have a baby inshallah.
Dear
Please pray 5 times & ask your god for help by two rakat prayer with the dua of sad people it sunah Propher Mohamd SAW advised.
Regards
Waleed
You are giving up to early my friend. Is your husband fulfilling all his responsibilites like providing you proper food, shelter, love and care? Love is not always exressed, it is to be felt. I hope you dont have an ideal or fantacy and you want that to come true? Can I ask your age?