How can we get our parents to agree to marriage?
Ok I'm 15 years old and there's a girl she's 15 (soon 16) I want to get married to her because of many reasons. Well 1: she look beautiful to me 2: she is warm hearted and kind 3: she is a Muslim 4: she is a decent Muslim. She prays her salaah (most of the time all etc) and she prays Quran also she wears a scarf.
ATM we are not goin out because I know it's not good but in the future how can I convince my parents? Like 100% my parents would never say yes but how can I make my parents meet her family without my parents knowing that I made them meet and I don't know her daughter. Like for eg I want my mom to meet hers then they will talk u know how eve tube does that I've got a son etc then she says I've got a daughter and then they could talk about marriage.please help.
Btw I know she's the one cuz I don't fall for no one no matter how good they look and this is the first time I really liked someone.also in my area it's rare to find someone like this. Also I haven't thought at all of sexual desires with her so haven't her. Btw she also likes me because of same reason. please help jazak
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You are too young please stop being romeo and her as
j uliet as you are a child yourself.
grow up first then think about these things. This is not a love story in a movie.
He said in the "future" come on now. There are kids who are getting married and they become more successful and independent than most of the grown up people's marriages. Omg
my sister got married (islamic nikkah) when she was almost 16 years old, she continued school and uni, now 10 years later, they are still married and having their first baby inshALLAH in few weeks!!
My dear brother,
Glad you found someone of good character.
If you like her and she likes you, and want your parents to meet.just tell your parents.
You are still very young and have a ways to go. But maybe you can talk to your dad and mom about how your future plans and that you found so done you really care about.
They will obviously say no to marriage as you still have a ways to go, but they won't magically meet...you have to be open about your feelings and maybe they can help you plan for something after high school.
All the best, focus on school, stay away from this lady for now and inshallah make dua so that you can be together after. And most of all, talk to your parents.
Talk to them, you are not young for marriage. It is the halal way to fulfill our needs and refrain from sins like zina. But unfortunately we have made marriage difficult due to rituals which cannot help a couple to live happily merely a burden on both families. And zina is easier than marriage but takes towards hellfire. Delaying marriage till he has at least 5000-10,000$ to spend on marriage ceremony is the main cause of adultery. So we should keep it simple and easy to beat shaitan.
Ahh.. Young muslim Love. Masha Allah, so sweet.
May Allah guide you and your girlfriend. 🙂
I will make dua for you two.