How to convince my husband to take me back?
I need help from all my sisters and brothers.
I got married 3 yrs back. After marriage we did have lot of problems. Due to some confusion, I was asked to leave the house and for some business reason and there was a huge problem between my parents and my husband.
My parents insulted, harrassed and even threatened my husband which I was unaware of. My husband got angry thinking I'm aware of all these and not supporting him. Even though I told him come and take me from my parents' house he didn't because he wanted me to speak against my parents and then walk out but I didn't have the courage.
In all this confusion I was made to sign the talaaq papers first and I thought it was just a petition and not final talaaq papers. Seeing my signature on it he too signed the papers. But in between all these we used meet and staying together in different city where we were working.
After we signed all the papers we realised it was a final call, and we had still stayed together and had physical relationship also. I kept telling him to do something and I was in misunderstanding that he will do something but he was very adamant that I should rectify but I was unaware as he never told me this condition.
That's when I had gone to Dubai for 3 months out of pressure from my parents. We used to still talk and think and plan of how to get back to each other. Due to some fight we had over the phone we stopped talking for some time. That's when his parents forced him to marry and he got married again to another woman.
I came to know this only after a month when I came down from Dubai to India. I was totally shattered and thats when I came to know our talaaq was also invalid as per Shari'ah. I did all the possible research and even got the letter as proof with reference to Quraan which says our talaaq is invalid.
Now that his second marriage is known by family public and everyone, but me being still his first wife it was not announced by him that our talaaq is invalid and that I'm still his wife. But he wants to take me back and does not have the courage to tell people that he wants to take me back because he's worried of questions from family and people.
How do I make him understand and convince him to announce that we are still husband and wife and keep me with him?
I can't take this life in this way anymore. I need him in my life. Please help.
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