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Asalam Alaikum Warahnatullahi Wabaraktuhu.

I would like to introduce myself I am a divorced Muslim female aged 24.

I have an concern on how should i convince my parents that i do not want to marry again right now.

They got me married before because i told them about my wish in marrying a man who is from Pakistan. I accepted their decision that they will do the best for me and killed my desire to marry someone else (I already had feelings for someone else).

I was sincere to my  husband. I prayed to Allah to let me find my happiness in him. But maybe it wasnt meant to be.  My husband had a medical problem leaving him unfit for the marriage to continue, leading to our divorce.

I accepted it as my fate this is how Allah wanted it to be. Even though I blamed my parents that they should have listened to me i know I shouldnt blame them.

Now the other person  whom I previously wanted to marry him. I  contacted him. I dont know if it was shaitanic driven or not.

We both sincerely want to marry each other. We dont want to sin. We are both matured enough to understand all this.

Can u give an advice to me or my parents that this time they should consider my wish? I know they are scared and protective about me. They love me alot. But in the end I will have to live my life. The person is ready to accept me. He convinced his parents once again for me.

Please need advice and guidance for my parents. How should i  take the matter to them.

Sincerely,
Sister in Islam.