Husband ignoring me sexually and I need options
I am a 24yr old married woman who have been married for 4 yrs with my husband. Together we have a 15 mth old son. My husband has been ignoring me sexually. Even before my pregnancy our sex life had been not so great. When I was pregnant we couldn't do anything because of pregnancy complications so of course he turned to porn. Even before pregnancy I have had this problem with him. He always denies it... since the birth of our baby we have had sex like about 4 times and he is 15 mths now. I tried talking to him, telling him my feelings and confronting him about porn, and he always says that he will change and that he won't look at porn anymore and that was last year.
Since then he still looks at porn every chance he gets and masturbate rather than coming to me. Many times I catch him in the act and this always ends up in a big fight then he would tell me he won't do it again. I am so frustrated. I tried talking to him, asking if the problem is me and what can I do? He goes on like nothing is wrong with you. He is blaming his bad habit on the absence of me due to pregnancy and says he will try to change, but to be honest he is not even trying. I really don't know what to do. Because of that I learned how to ignore it and now I don't want to even have sex with him ...(not that he ever approached me).
So my questions are: Is masturbation bad since I get no sex at all for months? Are sex toys bad? What are my options and how can I resolve my sexually frustrated life?
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