Husband mistreats me but says he loves me
My problem is that I have been married now for 6 months only. My husband is from other country and I am arab. At the beginning he was fighting and too eager we will be together after marriage he changes a lot. He keeps away, even our intimate relationship changed, it seems he is not interested in sex with me at all. Sometimes even when I approach he pushes me and saying he is stressed in work and tired and it's late when he can do ghusl and so on. And he either do it forcely or not to hurt me with no passion which I can feel which kills me inside as if I don't deserve a man like him he always say I am handsome man.
As I feel he always says why you don't gain much weight and when we fight he says me bad words and that I am ugly and asks me to leave the house and travel back to my parents and after that he regrets and apologize and ask for forgiveness and he always say that he loves me and can't live without me and it's only anger and beg me to forgive and on other hand he always hurt me looking to other women in streets and he wants me to see him doing that when we fight he make facebook chatting with women and when I discover he says it's nothing and he did so due to anger and to keep his mind busy from the fight.
I discovered that he already was addict of chatting with women and I think he had past sexual relationships also before marriage but he denies and saying am only his love and they are just cheap women and he just talk over internet and I should be happy he is not doing in real life also many times. I told him don't download movies which contain sexual content he sometimes keeps silent and sometimes fights and saying he will do.
We sometimes have good moments also he say it's all due to stress which hinder our relationship. We don't go out too much most of time am staying home alone and when he come from work he just stay with the laptop or watching movies. What's ur advice?
Isn't it too early after 6 months only to lose interest in sexual desire? Work can really kill it or he just got bored and betraying me with other women? How can I discover this? Do he betray me? If he don't love me why he keeps me and am suffering too much? He keeps me as a servant and cooker for free which he thinks why he should lose? Should I ask for divorce?
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