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I want to die – please give me some advice

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Hi brothers and sisters...I'm not an Muslim but I trust and I believe in Allah..

I have lots of troubles in my family..I love a guy for past 8 years but my parents are against my love now I'm 21...my parents can't understand my love...

I really don't want to live...I hate myself....I can't marry any other person but my parents won't take "No" as a word itself...

Please can anyone tell me....now what can I do for it? I have thought many times to commit suicide but still I want to live if it can be with him....At least I want to die being his wife.....

What can I do now?

aki


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  1. Salam sister,

    As I understand your post, you are lost and need a purpose to live and the only purpose you can see is this boy you like, but your parents won't let you have him.

    Solution: If you trust and believe in Allah the Merciful, then become a Muslim! Make Islam something for yourself to live for other than this boy, and later on if Allah wants then He will let you have him. There is a thing in Islam called "sabr" which means to have patience with your current circumstances and have complete trust in Allah that He will pull you through the pain, somehow. Islam says the purpose of life is to be tested to your limits every moment so that Allah the Merciful can see that you are truly worthy of paradise, or"Jannat", which is something that lasts an infinity of lifetimes. Just remember that if you trust in Allah and follow what He says in the Quran you can be so much happier later on, but that does not include killing yourself, because Allah says that will automatically disqualify you from Jannat.

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