I want to marry her but her Istikhara was negative, what can I do?
Asalam O Alaikum, I live in Riyadh. I would like to ask something about Istakhara. I have a cousin, she lives in Paris. We both like each other and would like to get married as well. Recently she did an Istakhara for herself that if I am good for her Deen and future. The answer came out Negative (having a dream). She says that she likes me a lot and would be very happy with me, but she has sacrificed alot of things in her life for the sake of ALLAH and Deen and she would probably do the same this time.
A. Does this Istakhara holds any positivity?
B. Is it right to do an Istakhara without letting your parents know?
C. If i do an istakhara for this matter and it comes out positive, does it make a difference?
D. Is it right that the outcome of an Istakhara keeps changing over time?
I need advice, what shall I do, because she has not spoken to her parents or anyone within her family about the Istakhara or that she likes me . She is getting marriage proposals quite often. I just want someone to reply back as soon as possible please, as I really think that she is the one who I want to get married to and I would like to approach her parents with a marriage proposal.
Allah Hafiz Thanks & regards,
-- Brother from Riyadh
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