Is suicide permissible to put a full stop to masturbation?
I have been trying hard to stop my masturbation and sexual thoughts out of my mind. No, I don't interact with girls and I don't speak with them unnecessarily but these thoughts are overriding me.
No amount of fasting helps me. It's really hard for me to control lustful thoughts.
I feel really guilty for this habit. After prayers I ask Allah to help me to stop masturbation or if His will is opposite to that, make me die. Allah guides whom He wills (http://quran.com/search?q=+Allah+guides+whom+He+wills) so if I do suicide then I won't be able to do masturbation anymore... so is it permissible?
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Salam alikum brother,
To answer your question, no, it is not permissible to commit suicide at any time for any reason. Allah swt made you so perfectly and only wants the best for you. Just look at the millions of little parts to your body that He made like artwork. Please don't kill that artwork.
If your biggest problem in life is masterbation, then think twice. Turn on the news bro, billions of people have it much worse. Say Alhamdulilah and repent. Repent means to ask forgiveness and make an oath/ serious promise to stop the sins. Next time you go to look at porn or masterbate, think of that oath and hold yourself to a standard.
Fight the Shaitan's wispers. Try saying Calimah when you get the urges. Think of Prophet Muhammad pbuh. If that doesn't work then think of something of so unappealing that it turns you off like rotten, moldy, stinking old food in the fridge. If you watch porn, put extra protective settings on your computer browser like 2 or 3 child locks, so it makes you slow down and think twice before unlocking them to satisfy a tiny urge. Every choice is yours, and all good choices lead to Allah swt and Jannat.
You can do it bro!
Shereen
Dear Brother.
Salaam,
No it is not permissible to commit suicide under ANY circumstances.
The sexual feelings you are experiencing are very common for men. Almost all men experience sexual feelings in themselves no matter how pure and Islamic they are. So you are not alone in this.
The problem of masturbation will go away in the future, so keep praying and asking forgiveness and in the future Inshallah your problem will go away. It may take a few days, few months or few years, but it will go away eventually.
Try reading the verses in the Quran reading the mercy and forgiveness of Allah and listen to some Youtube videos about Allah's mercy and forgiveness.
May Allah give you more knowledge about Islam.
Salam,
I am in the same situation as you, and i agree there is no stopping in this habit beside reduction. Luckly i am married but i still have to wait for my wife to be here with me in a year. Just try your best.
I also have this problem i cant live without doing masturbation,i don't watch porn but I'm really addicted to maturation and if i don't do masturbation at least twice a week i get rude to every body,If i do masturbation im really really fine
What the wet dreams ,if boys dont do masturbation for somedays , semen is leaked when we are sleeping and the next day im so angry that i do masturbation my self ,i will die if i cant do it so can i do masturbation twice a week,plzzzzzz just tell yes or no it is related to question plzzzzz tell some one,
Please visit the website " yourbrainonporn " for more information on the side effects of masturbation.
Please listen to the lecture on Youtube by Shaykh Hasan Ali titled " From addiction and sin to devotion within ".
First you have to change you mentality. Your pessimistic attitude won't help you succeed in life.
Instead of saying " you can't ", be a little bit optimistic and try saying " it's very difficult but I'll try to do whatever little is possible "