Comments on: We did Istikhara and our answers are not the same http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/istikhara-and-answers-are-not-the-same/ Islamic marriage advice and family advice Sun, 12 Feb 2012 02:54:54 +0000 hourly 1 By: maryam http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/istikhara-and-answers-are-not-the-same/comment-page-1/#comment-15360 maryam Sat, 08 May 2010 18:11:45 +0000 http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/?p=2743#comment-15360 salaam brother. i know a person for 2 years. v wanted to get married. but now the circumstances has changed since he went to pakistan for a visit. ive done istekhara for a couple of times didn't see any result. as the probl;ems that occured after the istekhara were the same as b4 istekhara as v had some arguments even though v liked eachother and wanted to get married. he gave some1 else to do istekhara and the answer came no but i can imagine as that person knew that dere were some family issues involved in our relationship. as i didnt trust that person who did the istekahra @ all. so now i've given some1 else to do istekhara who doesn't know us and our situation. im still w8ing for the answer. wat shud i do. im really confused and whom shud i follow pls do help salaam brother.
i know a person for 2 years. v wanted to get married. but now the circumstances has changed since he went to pakistan for a visit. ive done istekhara for a couple of times didn't see any result. as the probl;ems that occured after the istekhara were the same as b4 istekhara as v had some arguments even though v liked eachother and wanted to get married. he gave some1 else to do istekhara and the answer came no but i can imagine as that person knew that dere were some family issues involved in our relationship. as i didnt trust that person who did the istekahra @ all. so now i've given some1 else to do istekhara who doesn't know us and our situation. im still w8ing for the answer. wat shud i do. im really confused and whom shud i follow pls do help

]]> By: SisterZ http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/istikhara-and-answers-are-not-the-same/comment-page-1/#comment-14194 SisterZ Mon, 08 Mar 2010 18:54:14 +0000 http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/?p=2743#comment-14194 Asalaamualaikum dear Ayesha, I am terribly sorry for not having replied yet and I know its been a long while!!! My schedule has been somewhat more hectic than usual recently although that is not an excuse. Br Wael has answered your query, but I shall be in contact with you inshaAllah as 'not having yet replied to you' keeps popping into my mind - especially when I'm driving home from work!! SisterZ Asalaamualaikum dear Ayesha,

I am terribly sorry for not having replied yet and I know its been a long while!!! My schedule has been somewhat more hectic than usual recently although that is not an excuse. Br Wael has answered your query, but I shall be in contact with you inshaAllah as 'not having yet replied to you' keeps popping into my mind - especially when I'm driving home from work!!

SisterZ

]]> By: ayesha http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/istikhara-and-answers-are-not-the-same/comment-page-1/#comment-14193 ayesha Mon, 08 Mar 2010 18:08:42 +0000 http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/?p=2743#comment-14193 salam! brother wael thx for answear. I asked sister z a quistion a little like this one(istikhara and marriage etc) but never got an answear. salam! brother wael thx for answear. I asked sister z a quistion a little like this one(istikhara and marriage etc) but never got an answear.

]]> By: wael http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/istikhara-and-answers-are-not-the-same/comment-page-1/#comment-14166 wael Sun, 07 Mar 2010 18:53:40 +0000 http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/?p=2743#comment-14166 You have to trust in your own Istikhara. You can't control someone else's thoughts or feelings or determine anyone else's course of action. You can only rely on your connection with Allah and follow the guidance that Allah gives you. So if you prayed istikhara to Allah, and the answer in your heart is no, then tell him no. You have to trust in your own Istikhara. You can't control someone else's thoughts or feelings or determine anyone else's course of action. You can only rely on your connection with Allah and follow the guidance that Allah gives you. So if you prayed istikhara to Allah, and the answer in your heart is no, then tell him no.

]]> By: ayesha http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/istikhara-and-answers-are-not-the-same/comment-page-1/#comment-14141 ayesha Sat, 06 Mar 2010 18:01:44 +0000 http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/?p=2743#comment-14141 How do u know that ur answear is no? have u had a dream or u feel like no? u can do again ishtikhara. How do u know that ur answear is no? have u had a dream or u feel like no?
u can do again ishtikhara.

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