Just found out my husband-to-be has a child
I am engaged to a Muslim man since January 2010,
We have known each other for 1.5 years. I am a Christian woman. I just found out he has a 5 month old baby that he never told me about. I am trying to adjust to this new situation. I feel since he lied about and then told me the truth that he should make this situation comfortable on my behalf. I think he should be willing to meet me halfway regarding this baby. I know he will be in the baby's life, I don't like the fact that when he is over at the mother's house this is putting him in a situation to mess around with her again.
As his fiance, shouldn't I have a say as to him being around this woman, especially after the way things happened? Isn't his duty to make peace at home and for us to come to a resolution to this matter? This is extremely stressful. How can I get him to see what this is doing to me? And when we are married is this how things are going to be, not being able to come to agreements or work things out so both parties involved are happy?
How can I get him to see this?
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