Islamic marriage advice and family advice

Marrying a girl of scripture

A Muslim confused about marrying a Christian

Muslim and Christian Marriage

I have a friend of mine
A Christian who prays to One God also believes there is only one God
Jesus is choosen by god as a special person
She doesn't pray to marry or jesus
She doen't consider cross as holy
She likes to read quran
Is now mad about me wants to marry me so badly
Am i allowed to marry her
She promised that our child will be muslim
She is even ready to convert but i asked her to wait know about islam more then convert
Now my condition is like i am unable to talk to my parents about it
Im so scared they will reject

So can i talk to them
Can i marry her
do i have to ask her to convert
Can they force me to leave her

Can i choose my own bride and ask my parents to marry only her to me

MUJI


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  1. Brother why do you have female friends this is completely haram?

  2. Yes you an marry her , it says so in the quran . If you do love her then forget what anyone says and marry her . The prophet sali hunwa sulim said that there is nothing better for people who love one another than marriage . But a word of caution , take it from some one who knows people who married converts their children were problems. Firstly you will need to get someone else to teach them about their religion . Secondly when things happen like your teenage daughter wants to have a boyfriend and hide it from the family . She may actually encourage her in this and help her in it to hide it from the rest of the family , i know someone who did this .

    “Made lawful to you this day are At‑Tayyibaat [all kinds of Halaal (lawful) foods, which Allaah has made lawful (meat of slaughtered eatable animals, milk products, fats, vegetables and fruits)]. The food (slaughtered cattle, eatable animals) of the people of the Scripture (Jews and Christians) is lawful to you and yours is lawful to them. (Lawful to you in marriage) are chaste women from the believers and chaste women from those who were given the Scripture (Jews and Christians) before your time when you have given their due Mahr (bridal-money given by the husband to his wife at the time of marriage), desiring chastity (i.e. taking them in legal wedlock) not committing illegal sexual intercourse, nor taking them as girlfriends”

    [al-Maa’idah 5:5]
    The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “We do not think that there is anything better for those who love one another than marriage.” (Narrated by Ibn Maajah, 1847; classed as saheeh by al-Busayri and by Shaykh al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Saheehah, 624)

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