I have stopped masturbation after 5 years, worried it will affect married life
Fed-up of Masturbation
i had been masturbating for last 5 years.. when i started masturbating i masturbate almost daily and sometimes 2 or 3 times a day and then when i noticed that i am getting weak day by day then i control myself and started masturbating after one week gap but could not stop my habit of masturbating but now i have stopped masturbating thanks to ALLAH ALMIGHTY..
Now i am afraid of my married life i am going to marry a girl soon INSHALLAH! I love her so much because of her i was able to stop masturbating..i want to know that due to my past (masturbating) is there any problem in my child birth process or any of the problems of infertility????
please help me and ans as soon as possible i am very much afraid about this thing 🙁
Fawad2.
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Please...PLEASE reply to this and tell me how you stopped. Seriously, I could use the tips. I don't masturbate as much as you used to but I still need to quit. Longest I've gone without it is 2 weeks. Any advise? And before you say fasting, nope I can't do that because not only can I not cook anything but a lot of the time I have to have my mother wake me up. I don't want to burden her sleep.
Assalamualaikum,
Brother, it is good that you have stopped masturbating, but it would be sincere if it is for Allah' Sake. It will have very less effect if you stop it due to the girl.
Perform Salatul Istikharah and go ahead with your proposal to her father. If it is good for you then the relationship will succeed in sha Allah.
In sha Allah it won't affect your married life. Just make sure you fulfil your pleasures only in Halaal ways through your legally married wife.
Muhammad Waseem
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I acciedntally masturbated. I think. I just touched my penis and started moving my hands up and down becuase it felt nice. Then some white fluid fell only a little bit. Then I think it is maturbation. I then done some research about this topic and found out that it is haraam in islam. I only done it once and inshaalah I will intend not to do it again. I didn't know tat this haraam. I am scared. Is this a sin. I will pray to Allah SWT for fogiveness. Could someone give me advice as soon as possible. I am 13 years old. I pray my 5 daily prayers everyday.
Salam,
Well done for the strength you have displayed. I would like to reassure you that there are unlikely to be any health issues from your masturbation. So dont worry about it at all. Apart from that, it is good you will soon be getting married because marriage is a way for us to protect our chasity.
InshAllah you have a happy marriage and keep strong
The Answer to ur question is NO...
I'm still in bondage of masturbation, please how can I stop it?
hey brother... i masturbate almost once a week.. the longest ive waited is like 2 weeks only only... i watch porn sometimes and then masturbate... kindly tell me how uve stopped it?? please help i want to stop.
Siddiqui, I edited your comment due to the bad language you used. Be careful next time please.
Wael
IslamicAnswers.com Editor
Aoa
in the beginning i didnot know that i used to masterbate...i discovered it after 4 years...i cried alot and asked for forgiveness from allah....but i couldnot stop and did it again after 15 days. it is very dissapointing. i will stop myself inshallah with the help of allah because no one else can do anything for me in this case..that i know...i will have to struggle myself and i will...i was only 12 when i acciedenly did it and disscovered it recently...if i ask allah to forgive me will he???because i repeated the same sin again..and twice?
and will it effect my intellegence or health in any other way ?
i askedthe same question in another webste but got no reply, i hope i will this time...
plz plz pray for me plz i want to be like all others
could someone reply??
Salam Samina, I hope this doesn't come too late,i'm not well documented on the subject but it can effect your brain, look at the YouTube videos about it by freequraneducation or nouman Ali khan etc... it's really helpful may Allah guide us all and forgive our sins insha Allah
Samina: ?because i repeated the same sin again..and twice?
and will it effect my intelligence or health in any other way ?
I don't think masturbation will effect your intelligence or health. Thinking that you committed a big sin may cause you stress and make you depressed and effect your health in that way.
It may help you discover your own sexuality, like what makes you get Orgasm.