My problem with my wife and her parents.
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I have question regarding my family matters, and I am in confusion to sort out the best possible solution.
1 year has been passed of my marriage and God blessed me with His blessings and I have little cute baby girl a while back.
Question 1: I heard that after giving birth to a child, wife should have to stay at her mother's home for about 40 to 45 days. What does Islam teach us in this regard.
Question 2: Regarding to above question, btw our families there wasn't any agreement or any notification from my wifes parents that it would be done like that on birth occasion, but now they are forcing me to do that like to complete 45 days at her home.
When I was about to take my wife from her home after 10 to 15 days passed. Not only this, her father put a demand infront of me that they will not sent my wife and my child back to me unless or until I buy a seperate home for her(which I cannot afford in my salary) where she can live freely and she wont have any kind of restriction of going in or out, means with out my(husbands) permission.
Adding to this, If I cant support seperation for her, then why did I married with her and when I will be able to support a seperate home, then I will be allowed to take my wife and my child back until then both will be in their's custody.
Adding to this, I am the elder son and I am supporting my family, and my parents needs me and definitly I want to serve them.
How should I act? What are the rights of her parents on her, are they doing right or wrong? Now what kind of rights I have and what I can show them. As her father said, that as your wife is my daughther so he has full rights on her to not to permitt her to go with me?
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