No beauty in marriage, why should I get married?
Your response will be highly appreciated. Thank you in advance and JazakAllah khair.
I am a 30 yr old woman. I understand my marriage age is way past due..due to various circumstances I didn’t get married though my family tried hard. It is time now and things are working in favor of my marriage, but I have lost complete interest in living a married life..what adds more to my opinion is the real life stories.. I see most people are soo unhappy with their marriage. I witness soo many divorces, personal problems and unhappy social lives.. My brother is Imam and he tells me about the horrible family issues he has to deal with.. I mean sorry to say, but our ummah has soo many crooked people. Allah says he puts Rahma between wife and husband but I dont see it, at least not among the people I know..
Alhamduillah I live a very comfortable and peaceful life, but my parent want me to get married, I am at the stage of life where I make my own decisions and I don’t want to get married, not at least for next few years or until I feel marriage is a good thing. Please tell me about the consequences of delaying my marriage and some benefits of getting married?
Written by Sultan on January 20th, 2008 with
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#1. April 16th, 2008, at 12:13 AM.
salamz sis,
Im just passing through all peoples article and crossed yours.. just thought im comment back..
A little bit about me im a 20 year old australian riased and born, /lebanesse backround.. im getting married inshullah may10 2008,
ive been engaged for 3yrs now and humdullah im as happy as ever, dont get me wrong but yes of cause there ups and down thats life but i do recommend marriage, in this life there nothing left to complete your religion it does say get married , us women are born as the missing rib in the mans body,
so dont just take the bad and judge it at that, and also dont say “uh ok im 30 now thats over due marriage what eva” thats not true i have alot of family members and friends that are that age and older and have’nt yet been married. so just lay back.. inshullah when the right time come allah (SWT) will sent your nasib so be patient sister and like i said see the good not the bad of things (as i talk thru experience)
ps. theres nothing left in this world … think positive..
salamz.