No One Will Marry Me - Is There a Spell on Me?
March 30, 2007
This question is answered by Wael Abdelgawad, the AskBilqis.com and Zawaj.com Editor and Administrator.
QUESTION:
Dear Bilqis,
I am over 30 years old and in my lifetime I have had over 15 marriage proposals and still get but every single one did not and does not happen and I’ve been told that a relation of mine who is jealous has put strong evil to stop me from ever getting married.
So even once the proposal comes, the moment we’re about to finalize everything the opposite party looks for excuses not to continue, this is very painful for me and my family, please advise me what solutions are there to remove the evil that is put on me and how can we stop it from constantly being put on us. I pray 5 times, I try to do good not bad, this is so painful for me as just last night again mine and my families hearts were broken when a good proposal that I got and we were going to finalise last night and suddenly for no real reason the boy decided not to go ahead and it’s not the first time that this has happened it has happened over 10 times and I really need help.
- Sister Z. from Australia
WAEL ANSWERS:
Dear Sister Z., As-Salamu Alaykum wa Rahmatullah,
It sounds to me like you or your family are doing something to scare these young men off. I suggest that you ask the young man to tell you honestly what is the problem, and why did he change his mind? You said he backed out “for no real reason.” This sounds as if maybe he did give you a reason, but you feel it’s not genuine.
Considering how many times this has happened, you must have observed some pattern. Try to figure out what you are doing that is causing these young men to back out, and see if it’s something you can change.
Glory to You Allah, we praise You, we bear witness that there is no God except You, we ask Your forgivess and we repent to You.
Best regards,
- Wael Hesham Abdelgawad, Administrator
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#1. April 12th, 2007, at 1:45 AM.
As someone who has been in your situation before, I’d like to leave an alternative opinion. Indeed such things does happen in my country/neighbouring countries. If you can find an ustadz capable of verifying for you whether indeed you have been put under a spell, he should also be able to remove the jinn that has been used to keep you out of marriage. There are also short surah’s which you can use get rid of the evil, like the ruqyah or the mat’surat.