No pure love in Islam?
Love.
I love someone very truly. That person was also loving me truly, but since he went to Qatar for a job difficulties started in our relationship. This happened day by day as he was not finding a job there.
After ramadan started, he got involved in hadees so much that he started avoiding me. He is saying that love is not allowed in Islam because our prophet SAWS didn't did do love marriages, so how can we do it? I told him that if our love is pure without any sexual contact, then Allah is always with pure love.
He loves ms still, but he is scared that if he admits this Allah will get dissapointed. He also blocked me on whatsapp because my 'last seen' and status makes him feel lower. So please give a reply because I want to make him understand and come back to me again.
-Aahana khan
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AsSalaamu Alaikum Sister,
Perhaps your boy friend was trying to explain to you that there is no bf, gf relationship in Islam, and that the only true and pure love is after a halal marriage. It doesn't matter whether sexual contact is involved or not, but in Islam you cannot continue talking to each other before marriage, except with your family (Wali) involved. If he truly wants to marry you, let him contact your parents.
OP: I love someone very truly. That person was also loving me truly, but since he went to Qatar for a job difficulties started in our relationship. This happened day by day as he was not finding a job there. After ramadan started, he got involved in hadees so much that he started avoiding me.
I don't think he was also loving you truly. I am sure he knew that he was old enough to know that you both are not supposed to have any kind of relationship. Did you have a physical relationship with him like kissing, hugging, touching etc?
I have a feeling your b/f is using religion to end relationship with you. How long were you friends with him? Just ignore him, find some one better who can FIND a job. He blocked you on whatsapp.
salam sister he is doing the right thing except we are taking in the wrong prospective.
he loves her but doesnt want to disappoint allah thats good... Alhamdulillah.
his next step however should be to get married to her inorder to avoid any fitnah.
salam sister since he has become so ilsmaic this is a good thing mashaAllah for both of your...your future and your kinds. alhamdulillah. why not get married if both of you love each other.
first of all you should ask him reason why he block you. is he have other gf. or his family didn't allow him for love marriage .i know love is after all love. thats why islam says that dont love before marry because if you cant get that person who you love then after marry with your family choice you cant live and give love to you husband. batter you forget him and marry with your family choice. because he is right and you also. we cant say wrong to both. Islam didnot force any muslim for any thing. thats you also dont try to force him for marry. it will batter for both of you.