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Asalamu Alaikum

I was hoping someone could help me on this.

When I regularly perform namaaz, I dreamt about people dressed in white,religious,  well dressed with hijab etc. Someone they tell me things like you have a good destiny. But lately I have been having strange dreams:

I have been traveling on a difficult path in my car, and the path was uphill on a mountain. On top of the mountain was a sort of shop containing plenty of books and when I entered the person who was there was a skinny religious man, carrying a large book. I knew I came to see him to ask him about my future, I have been in love with someone and wanted to know if I should wait for him. He looked as if he was in a hurry and when I asked him what will happen, he replied in a low voice, I could barely hear what he was saying. He told me not to tell anyone, then when he finished, he was in a hurry to leave.

Next I dreamt I was in a arabic country looking for someone who knew what will happen in the future. Me and my mom saw a place like this and there was a flag with arabic writings near the front door, so we entered, there were lots of people, there was a lady, again she was dressed like a religious person, she was the one I was looking for, there were other people who were queuing up, waiting their turn. I asked him if I'm going to marry the boy I'm in love with, I gave her the name, she was talking in a language I understand all this time but when I gave her the name, she was as if communicating with someone, and told me something in urdu, which is a language I did not understand. Again she was in a hurry to leave.

 Next when my grandmother died, one week later I dreamt about her with my daughter. I saw with daughter even when she is not born yet! but it was a blurry vision.

I decided to perform istiharah yesterday to ask about that guy, but had several dreams. I dreamt of him, but forgot what it was, next I dream of me being underwater, more than 1 storey high of water surrounding me, it looked like I was in the middle of the sea. I am afraid and do not know how to swim but it looks like  I knew how to swim because I was not suffocating. There were some people around me, but I did not seem to know how to get to the surface. Someone grabbed me and pulled me to the surface. It was my boss. My boss is very friendly, and has always supports me throughout my career so no wonder why he came in my dream to save me. When we reached the surface I screamed because I realised I was in the middle of the sea but he showed me how to get onshore. And I was saved.

I don't know what this all means, these strange dreams that I've been having and I was hoping someone could help me interpret them. Thanking you in advance.

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  1. Praise be to Allaah.

    True dreams are a part of Prophethood, as it was reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “True dreams are one of the forty-six parts of Prophethood.” (al-Bukhaari, 6472; Muslim, 4201)

    Dreams marked the onset of Revelation (al-Bukhaari, 3; Muslim, 231).

    The truthfulness of the dream is related to the sincerity of the dreamer. Those who have the most truthful dreams are those who are the most truthful in speech. (Muslim, 4200)

    Towards the end of time, hardly any dreams will be untrue. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “That will be because the Prophethood and its effects will be so far away in time, so the believers will be given some compensation in the form of dreams which will bring them some good news or will help them to be patient and steadfast in their faith.” (al-Bukhaari, 6499; Muslim, 4200)

    The same may be said of the miracles which appeared after the time of the Sahaabah. This did not happen during their time because they did not need them, due to their strong faith, but the people who came after them needed them (the miracles) because their faith was weak.

    Dreams are of three types: rahmaani (those that come from Allaah), nafsaani (psychological, they come from within a person) and shaytaani (those that come from the Shaytaan). The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Dreams are of three types: a dream from Allaah, a dream which causes distress and which comes from the Shaytaan, and a dream which comes from what a person thinks about when he is awake, and he sees it when he is asleep.” (al-Bukhaari, 6499; Muslim, 4200)

    The dreams of the Prophets are wahy (revelation) for they are protected from the Shaytaan. The Ummah is agreed upon this. This is why Ibraaheem set out to fulfil the command of Allaah to sacrifice his son Ismaa’eel when he saw that in a dream; may peace be upon them both.

    The dreams of people other than the Prophets are to be examined in the light of the clear Wahy [i.e., the Qur’aan and Sunnah]. If they are in accordance with the Qur’aan and Sunnah, all well and good; otherwise, they should not be acted upon. This is a very serious matter indeed, for many of the innovators among the Sufis and others have gone astray because of this.

    Whoever wants to have true dreams should strive to speak honestly, eat halaal food, adhere to the commandments of sharee’ah, avoid that which Allaah and His Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) have forbidden, sleep in a state of complete purity facing the Qiblah, and remember Allaah until he feels his eyelids drooping. If he does all this, then his dreams can hardly be untrue.

    The most truthful of dreams are those that are seen at the time of suhoor [just before dawn], for this is the time when Allaah descends and when mercy and forgiveness are close. It is also the time when the devils are quiet, unlike the time of darkness just after sunset, when the devils and devilish souls spread out.

    (See Madaarij al-Saalikeen, 1/50-52)

    Al-Haafiz ibn Hajar said:

    All dreams are either of two types:

    true dreams. These are the dreams of the Prophets and of the righteous people who follow them. They may also happen to other people, but this is very rare, such as the dream of the kaafir king which was interpreted for him by Yoosuf (peace be upon him). True dreams are those which come true in real life as they were seen in the dream.

    Mixed up false dreams, which warn of something. These are of different types:

    games of the Shaytaan to make a person distressed, such as when he sees his head cut off and he is following it, or he sees himself falling into a crisis and cannot find anyone to save him from it, and so on.

    When he sees some of the angels telling him to do something forbidden, or other things that cannot possibly make sense.

    When he sees something that happens to him in real life, or he wishes it would happen, and he sees it very realistically in his dream; or he see what usually happens to him when he is awake or what reflects his mood. These dreams usually speak of the future or the present, rarely of the past.

    See: Fath al-Baari, 12/352-354

    Abu Sa’eed al-Khudri (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If any one of you sees a dream that he likes, this is from Allaah, so let him praise Allaah for it and talk about it to others. If he sees other than that, a dream that he dislikes, this is from the Shaytaan, so let him seek refuge with Allaah from its evil and not mention it to anyone, for it will not harm him.” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 6584, and Muslim, 5862).

    Abu Qutaadah said: the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Good dreams come from Allaah, and (bad) dreams come from Shaytaan. Whoever sees something that he dislikes, let him spit to his left three times and seek refuge with Allaah from the Shaytaan, for it will not harm him.” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 6594, and Muslim, 5862). The “spitting” referred to here is a soft, dry spitting with no saliva ejected.

    It was reported from Jaabir (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If any one of you sees a dream that he dislikes, let him spit to his left three times, and seek refuge with Allaah from the Shaytaan three times, and turn over from the side on which he was sleeping.” (Narrated by Muslim, 5864)

    Ibn Hajar said: to sum up what has been said about good dreams, we may say three things:

    A person should praise Allaah for the good dream

    He should feel happy about it

    He should talk about it to those whom he loves but not to those whom he dislikes.

    To sum up what has been said about bad dreams, we may say four things:

    He should seek refuge with Allaah from the evil of the dream

    He should seek refuge with Allaah from the evil of the Shaytaan

    He should spit to his left three times when he wakes up

    He should not mention it to anyone at all.

    In al-Bukhaari, Baab al-Qayd fi’l-Manaam, a fifth thing was narrated from Abu Hurayrah, which is to pray. The wording of the report is: whoever sees something he dislikes (in a dream) should not tell anyone about it; rather he should get up and pray. This was reported as a Mawsool report by Imaam Muslim in his Saheeh.

    Muslim added a sixth thing, which is to turn over from the side on which one was lying.

    In conclusion, there are six things to do, the four mentioned above, plus praying two rak’ahs, for example, and turning over from the side on which one was lying to lie on one’s back, for example.

    See Fath al-Baari, 12/370.

    According to a hadeeth narrated from Abu Razeen by al-Tirmidhi, he should not tell anybody about it except a very close friend who loves him very much, or who is very wise. According to another report, he should not talk about it except to one who is wise or one who is dear to him. According to another report, he should not tell of his dream except to a scholar or one who will give sincere advice. Al-Qaadi Abu Bakr ibn al-‘Arabi said: as for the scholar, he will interpret it in a good way for him as much as he can, and the one who will give him sincere advice will teach him something that will be of benefit to him and will help him to do that. The one who is wise is the one who knows how to interpret it and will tell him only that which will help him, otherwise he will keep quiet. The one who is dear, if he knows something good he will say it, and if he does not know or he is in doubt, he will keep quiet.

    See Fath al-Baari, 12/369

    Imaam al-Baghawi said:

    Know that the interpretation of dreams falls into various categories. Dreams may be interpreted in the light of the Qur’aan or in the light of the Sunnah, or by means of the proverbs that are current among people, or by names and metaphors, or in terms of opposites. (Sharh al-Sunnah, 12/220)

    He gave examples of this, such as:

    Interpretation in the light of the Qur’aan: such as a rope meaning a covenant, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

    “And hold fast, all of you together, to the Rope of Allaah…” [Aal ‘Imraan 3:103]

    Interpretation in the light of the Sunnah: such as the crow representing an immoral man (faasiq), because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) called it such.

    Interpretation by means of proverbs: such a digging a hole meaning a plot, because people say “Whoever digs a hole will fall in it.”

    Interpretation by means of names: such as seeing a man called Raashid meaning wisdom.

    Interpretation by means of opposites: such as fear meaning safety, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

    “And He will surely give them in exchange a safe security after their fear” [al-Noor 24:55]

    As for the book “Interpretation of Dreams” that is attributed to Ibn Seereen, many researchers doubt that it can be attributed to him at all, so we should be certain that this book was written by this prominent scholar.

  2. My dear sister,

    I dont know if anyone is qualified for dream interpretations. If they claim to do so, make sure they are religious and or imams.

    I wouldnt trust anything that anybody says online about your dreams.

    I found this article about dreams in Islam which might be of help to explain different types of dreams.

    http://islamqa.info/en/6537

    Hope that helps,

    Sweet dreams =)

  3. Walaykumasalam sister
    The one i posted above is authetic and from an authtic website islamqa.info
    It also includes the different types of dreams.

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