Can a sunni woman marry a shia man?
With all my respect, I would like that you give me a global view to see if this union between sunni and shia is possible and what can be done to help them to marry.
There is a couple I know : sunni girl, shia guy, shia belongs to a zaidi family, sunni girl to sayed but sunni girl here is closer to me, so i would really be mentioning more of her in places so please do not ask me other questions of boy because i dont know the family personally.
They both are madly in love with each other, they seem to have discussed their mutual views on family and after marriage problem if any ...girls and boys parents both don´t agree for the marriage but they are still trying to work on it and marry only when their parents agree. The boy is very loving and caring for the girl. I have seen it and he is very honest . since i know his daily routine and know his friends whom he´s always around where he lives etc, same for the girl. she is having same feelings for the guy yet she is not able to express more of her feelings because she feels it is not good before the actual marriage.
The guy has given her a ring to show his love n make her remember that he loves her alot and she accepted it as her future husband word, both are very close to each other.
They don´t do anything wich a normal husband wife do because it´s not yet permissible, yet they are so impatient wich they know and are really working on it to be patient but still for their happiness they have gone so far, they want to marry but as you know the problems are there. The boy told her she can practice whatever she likes as she does already and the girl has no issues personally irrespective what her family thinks for the guy .
She knows the guy so well that she has told me she doesn´t find much difference in herslef and him, the only thing that separates them is the way they pray and the imams beliefs but that guy told her that he only belivies because he´s been taught of it since childhood. He personally and mainly believes in ALLAH subhana wataalah and prophet P.B.U.H. and gives respect to all other companions and wives of his and also repects ali (raziaallau aanhu.)
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