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I cannot take this abuse, so is it haraam to move out?
I want to leave my house. I’ll be 18 in a few months. I can’t stand my family anymore. I’m a girl and I know I shouldn’t live alone but I can’t take it anymore. I’ve been depressed for as long as I can remember. My father has been abusing me for as long as I can remember. I’ve been through all types of abuse. My mother would try and protect me but she’s a sick woman. She’s has high blood pressure and Diabetes. I know it’s tough on her since my dad tortured her for 20 long years.
I’m fed up with my husband’s unemployment and abusive family
Salam,
I’m a 30-year-old woman with a 2-year-old child and inshallah 1 on the way. I’ve been married for almost 3 years now and living with my in-laws.
My husband worked in the first year and then stopped working due to a lack of work from his employers. He never bothered and tried to look for work after that. My father-in-law sold his business and gambled most of the money. So they were also left with no income.
Should I leave my loveless marriage?
My mother got me married at 16 to her nephew in Pakistan. At the time I just did what she wanted as I thought she would do what is best for me. I was a type of girl whose life revolved around study. I was a prefect and got the highest grades when I finished. I had my college planned and place set. I found out I was going to get married when it was my sister’s walima, my mum booked the tickets in two days time.
How can we break the spell on my brother?
My brother was a quiet and understanding young man. He chose a girl of his choice to marry. My parents were not against their union but they did not want my brother to marry before completing his studies. For the last few months, he has been acting violently.
How can I move on from my haram relationship?
I was in a relationship with a non practicing muslim for 9 months. In this space of time we were living together with his family.
I expected to get engaged but that didn’t end up happening. After, he became very violent and possessive towards me resulting in me geting a black eye.
My dead father is haunting me
I am writing to you for help with one of life’s problems. I am a recent convert to Islam and I am ashamed to ask my local Imam for help. I was an only child and I lived with both my parents, while my mother wanted me and demonstrated this through love and attention, my father was a different story (he died nearly 20 years ago).
I want my sisters to recover and talk with me and father again
As salam alaikum- I am a 33 year old married man living happily with my wife and kid my mother expired 7 years back but before her death when I was unmarried and living with my family there was horrible violence..
The abuse from my past is holding me back, please help
Assalaam alaikum, brothers and sisters in the deen, my life is a mess and I need help. I am a muslim , although I am ashamed to call myself that. I am 36 years old, drink alcohol, have a ruined marriage..
Husband is abusive and separates me from my family
I have been married for an year and a half. After marriage I moved abroad. My husband is 9 years older to me. I had problems with my in-laws and abusive husband. I filed a case of Khulah just to get rid of the torture I was going through. .
I’m with my mentally & physically abusive husband for the sake of my baby.
My husband has been physically and mentally abusing me continously since a long time. He had done so 3 years back and then had almost come an end to our marriage but then he promised to be good and sweared he would never do so and wanted to come back to me.
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