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Husband is abusive and separates me from my family

I have been married for an year and a half. After marriage I moved abroad. My husband is 9 years older to me. I had problems with my in-laws and abusive husband. I filed a case of Khulah just to get rid of the torture I was going through. .

I’m with my mentally & physically abusive husband for the sake of my baby.

My husband has been physically and mentally abusing me continously since a long time. He had done so 3 years back and then had almost come an end to our marriage but then he promised to be good and sweared he would never do so and wanted to come back to me.

What can I do if my family doesnt give me food?

I am a severely disabled (dont walk and limited arm use) never married adult woman. my family is cruel and abusive and often dont give me food to eat. Sometimes I am crying in bed in pain and hungry (my illness is very physically painful) and I can hear them in the kitchen eating and joking and laughing.

My past is affecting my future and is making husband over protective

Asalaam, I was sexually abused by my father from the age of 8-17yrs. By 18 I had enough strength to put an end to all the form of abuse. I was in contact with my neighbour who was a childhood friend. We grew really close, just over the phone may I add, as I was never allowed out. I confided in him before my family knew.

Father and brother beat me and my mother

I need help, I have visited this website numerous times to seek advice that may apply to me. However, I feel that writing to you all will be a better alternative for me. Any advice will be highly appreciated. Jazakallah. I apologize for the long post in advance..

We think our family cursed us because we are reverts.

I have been muslim for 2 years now and my husband has been muslim for 9 years. As we are both reverts we have a lot of problems with both of our families. Our families are christians. My husband and I both have suffered from emotional and verbal abuse ever since.. becoming muslim.

My husband has tried to suffocate me with a pillow.

Assalamalaikum

I am a 30 year lady and been married for 3 years.
Let me add that I got married to a muslim man of my choice who is younger than me 2 years. Initially my parents objected to his marriage when they found out that he use to drink alcohol. But since i knew or at least I thought he had stopped drinking, i begged my parents to let me marry him.

Moving forward after leaving abusive husband

How can I tell the program I’m in that my location has been compromised by me after all their assistance? How could I have done this to my children?

Betrayed and cheated but i still love him

Im seeking help and advice i been with this guy for 3 1/2 years, we been through so many problems and still together.Our ups and down we stick together but year 2010 month of May I feel something going wrong. I have so many speculation and feeling that he was cheating on me.I found so many hints and so many marks that lead me finding the truth but since i love him so much and we on the process of settling down i just keep those things as nothing and im trying to convinced myself that he still be loyal and honest to me that he will not do such thing to me.

My husband is not good to me and now I like another man

I have been married for 7 years and have 3 wonderful children. The problem is with my husband. In the first year of marriage he and his family threw me out of their home twice. The first was because I wasn’t happy with him going out all the time and dissapearing for hours. This caused arguments between us, his mother thought that i didn’t have any right to question him in anyway.