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He has left me and I feel like killing him or myself, someone help

A brief summary is that I fell in love with a guy and how everything went. We had physical relationship and promised each other to look after another through thick and thin. But later on that when I asked him to marry me, he refused. He mentioned the caste issues and other issues of his [...]

Will Allah forgive me for rejecting a proposal after accepting?

Asalamualaikum,
My parents had finalized my partner for me a year ago who is my cousin. That time I was okay with it and agreed to it. However, as time went on I met another guy. I was very much attracted towards him. I started to fall for him very badly. He felt the same about me.

Is marriage after a haram relationship possible?

I’ve been in a relationship with a guy for 5 1/2 years.

Recently, his mom called a few times talking to my mom and my family’s decision was strongly based on istikhara. My parents agreed to perform istikhaara but the result was scary, they saw me skinny and as well as our family’s enemy smiling at us and saw some other weird people too. So my mom rejected.

How can I make this relationship work?

Dear brothers and sisters, I’m in need of a advice. Since my teens years I have been involved in wrong. A year and a half ago I met a very nice Christian girl and we started dating. Early on in our relationship I told her religion will be a problem and she said she would convert if I told her more about religion and if he she thought it was best for her. So we dated and were happy and planned to get married all along.

How should I respond to my boyfriend who is telling me he cannot have a love marriage?

I am in love relationship with one of my good friends. He is now out of country for his Masters. He has a access to all my accounts (hotmail or FB) but he never gave his passwords to me.

Is being asked to convert to Islam by boyfriend a good thing?

I have only been with my Egyptian boyfriend for few months and he says to me that he wants me to become a Muslim, is this a good thing?

Found out boy friend is Married

I feel anger and feel cheated. I want to tell his wife, but I dont want to stay with him. I am trying my best to stop him from contacting me, but I love him so much. When I do see him I feel guilty and bad and utterly sick. I dont know what to do. How can some one be so cruel and selfish.

Pregnant with my boyfriends baby and I feel like dying

Hi, I am pregnant with my turkish boyfriends baby. We have been seeing each other 2 yrs nows and when I went to see him in September and this time he wouldnt use condom to which I’ve found out I am 7 weeks pregnant to which my boyfriend has gone crazy.

Never dated in fear of sinning but I failed once

I am at a stage where I have realized that the man I thought I was in love with only wanted a physical relationship and not the halal (permitted by Allah) path which is marriage. I was in a vicious circle where I would break up with him and then go back to him. Finally, even though it hurt me to pieces, I was able to let go with Allah’s help. And finally I did it. I did it for me but for the most I did it to please Allah and to stop this dirty and harmful relationship.

Just my story, a sad one but hopefully not forever.

I ran into your website and I would like to share my story. I am usually very reserved and I do not participate in blogs, social website and the like but I feel this community might listen and hopefully help. I would like to tell you my story which is about love and religion. I [...]