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I want to get married… But my father refuses!

We are three sisters in my family and my father refuses for any of us to get married. My eldest sister is 37 and unmarried. The middle sister ran away to get married and has been cut off from the family. Now it’s my turn and my father is again refusing my suitor.

I converted to marry her but she is engaged with someone else. Please help me

I loved a Muslim girl and I converted and became a Muslim. Little by little, I’ll become perfect in Islam insha Allah but the girl is engaged to someone else. If she marry me I will get a perfect Islamic life. There is 1 year time for her marriage. I can’t forget her.

My sister got a positive istikhaara, but the boy’s father will not agree

My sister agreed to marry a boy she knew from school, but now his father does not agree because we are from different social classes (they are very wealthy and we are middle class). My sister is very sensitive and now she is deeply depressed and crying.

Still not found the right partner for marriage

I am an educated British Pakistani man born and bred in England, who is trying to find the right woman to settle down with. It’s not fair as most of the people that I work with have taken all the girls at my workplace now they are thinking of getting married. There was one Pakistani girl that I really liked,but then she decided to go for a jerk…

My aunt will not let me marry the boy I love

My name is Suliyat, am muslim child, my daddy sister dont not want me to marry who in love. What can I do? She seld os not her present that were go marry each and we love pur self. Now my friend is not calling like before.

Despairing of my life and future, in fear of losing my deen

I belong to middle class family, I am single and I am studying in university. I have problem regarding social phobia. Means I feel very hesitate and nervous in crowd and people. Because of this since my childhood I never had any relationship although I am straight, 5,5″ height and average looking and normaly build. But because I had issues in past with my family since my fathers death and since then I have been struggling.

My cousin & I desperately want to marry each other, but my family will not agree!

i am in love with my mother’s brother’s son, he also loves me. their whole family knows about me and is ready for our marriage, but my family they dont know about this and they dont like that family at all.

choosing dad over a guy is it right?

I am 18 and the guy I still love is 30. He is from a different nationality but he is a very good muslim and he respects me alot. We dated for a year and did alot except zinaa. And I’m still feeling really guilty and shameful for whatever I have done. Because I really love my dad, I did what he said. I left the guy. But since then I feel really guilty and cursing my self every time I think of him. Whatever I have done was haram and at the end another sin which I broke his heart for the sake of my father.

I’m 19 and in love but my family won’t let me get married

Asalama aleykum brothers and sisters.
i’m a girl age 19. i am in love and the boy really loves me back and he wanna do so much for me and my family, but my family are not accepting him and they keep saying to me i am too young to get married and should think of my education first. i’m really depressed and dont know what i should do, need help asap.. Please help.

- Ramla

His mother won’t let him marry me but he won’t give up

i met a guy through chat. we used to be friends in the beginning and as time went i felt that it was more than friendship. he also one day told me that he loves me a lot. I thought i had met my soulmate and i was so happy that everything was on its way. one day he called me up and told me that he got engaged before 5 years and he cannot hide this fact no longer from me.