Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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My husband won’t even talk to me

I make duaa for Allah to bring us closer together. But I feel like he has stayed with me just so he won’t upset my mother, and I have found pictures on his laptop with girls in bikinis. I want to fix this and be happy.

My husband is not happy with our lovemaking

My husband says that I never cooperated with him when we made love. He demands wild sex, but I don’t know what is all that, and he does not discuss with me what he actually wants.

I was divorced but wish to give our relation another chance

I have recently gotten divorced. at the time i was sure i wanted to end my marraige but now after divorcing im having second thoughts

Online friendship becoming romantic, I feel confused

I’ve been chatting to a girl online who recently reverted to Islam. She’s fallen in love with me. I’ve been talking to her for a while, although we haven’t spoken to each other because she knows it not allowed in Islam so I’ve talked through social website.

How can I communicate my sexual needs to my husband without hurting him?

Assalam U Alaikum

I feel strange writing here but I sincerely need help and this can’t be from people I know because then my personal and family matters would not remain personal anymore. I have been happily married for the past ten years mashallah..The problem is that I don’t enjoy sexual relations with my husband.

I don’t know how to tell my father I want to marry

Since I have started working he always doubts me and feels I am up to no good when deep down I am really not. I still cannot find the way to tell my dad that I want to get married because I would only get a response which would be criticism and he would most likely want me to leave.

I have been living separately from my husband for nearly 18 months, am I divorced?

Please help me as i am totally lost here. I have been living seperately from my husband for nearly 18 months. I have had no sexual relationship with him and certainly no contact. During my marriage it was never good as we never communicated with each other, never had dinner together and never really had much physical contact.

I have had haraam relations with my boyfriend, how do I repent and make my parents agree to marry us?

I love a guy who is very good we are together for about 3 yrs mashallah and deeply in love. But we have done a sin, we did not engage in sexual intercourse but except that, hope you understood. Now we both want to repent things just happen and we actually cant figure it out. I really want to repent so do my bf and also that we dont want to do that again.

I found my Mr. Right online but don’t know how to tell my parents

I started looking for a husband by myself online. Why ? Because I wanted to give myself a chance to find the partner I want, then let my parents find someone for me if it doesn’t work. I met someone compatible. He’s from UK and I live in France. Both of us are serious about marriage, and we were very surprised to find out that we have the same views about life. Ok, now you’re probably thinking I’m kinda naive lol. Honestly, I’m not.

Marriage communication

I do not know if this is something wrong, but any time I say something to my husband he gets angry, for example he asked me if his trousers are dirty( to judge if they are dirty) I said I do not know, I did not think that my answer was rude?

Have I been rude Is there any book in Islam that talk about good marriage communication?