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I am living the life of a prisoner with my husband

I married this man because he said he would be on my side, and now he is doing the exact opposite just because we have a daughter and he knows I can’t let her suffer.

My husband doesn’t want me to contact my family at all!

My husband is super controlling and doesn’t want me to associate with my family now that I am married.

Ruined my marriage, really want her back!

I drove my wife and children away with my bad behavior. I have changed, but I cannot convince her to come back.

Dream about the Prophet (pbuh), now my marriage seems to be done.

He is very unhappy with me and I cannot prove to him my honest intentions. In his eyes I am a horrible wife. I feel like I have a curse I cannot get rid of so I can stop making my husband angry and be the wife he can be happy with.

My husband is demanding and unfair.

I understand that a husband and wife are like clothing for one another and that’s why it’s best to keep matters between you two but currently I feel like everything has gotten out of hand.

Ultra-controlling husband is suffocating me

My husband grew up without affection, and when he saw how affectionate my family is, he decided that we are all perverted. Since then he controls my behavior down to the tiniest detail.

My husband has abandoned me

We were preparing for marriage but he left without any notice. I am so confused and lost.

Married to an educated but verbally abusive man

Married to a highly educated person, who is angel in eyes of others is a mental torturer for me. Has no sympathy towards me not even on humanitarian basis.

Husband is extremely verbally abusive, is it my fault?

I have tried to speak with him in calmer times to explain that his behaviour of getting angry over minuscule things then blaming me for his vile language is a classic example of verbal and emotional abuse, and suggested we look into counselling or advice from any Imam, Sheikh, scholar etc that he feels comfortable to speak with, but he refuses.

My husband excludes me from decisions

He says I are being disrespectful, he is my husband and I should do what he wants. It’s been only six months since we got married, and I got just a few months to finish my studies. If he is acting this way now that am away, what will happen if I am home?