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Controlling fiancé

I am to be married in a month a few weeks, I talk to my fiance through the phone… I realized that when he marries me he is going to control me so much, he already started telling me what I should not do..

If he is not a good muslim himself i.e does not pray 5 times and has commited zinaa am I to follow what he commands. He says I should not pluck my eye-brows and he wants me to be covering my face when I go out and I agreed to this cuz I do not like arguing..

My husband constantly asks me to divorce him

I am a muslim convert. I converted to Islam in 2006 and got married to a Muslim man in 2007. The thing is, my husband, he flirts etc in front of my face with other women, however if another man should even LOOK at me or talk to me, I am instantly to blame.