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Husband beating me and neglecting me, what should I do?

The entire week he used to be out 15 hours for work, & I used to be alone at home. Or he used to simply leave me at his parents home. I was working at management level before I got married, but due to the fights he didn’t let me work afterwards. Whenever I went to his parents place, they wanted me to serve them for everything. Though they had daughters, I was like a servant to them. Soon I started fighting with my husband for all this & he started beating me.

I dont want to divorce my husband but I am also scared of giving him another chance

I had a nikkah over the phone and had only met my husband after I had the nikkah since he lived in pakistan and I live in the UK. This was an arranged marriage. I had seen his picture and had spoken to him over the phone. Since my parents knew the family so well and my in laws seemed so nice I thought my parents made the right decision

Verbally abusive wife

My wife and I are both british and had a love marriage. We were fine for a short time but as time has progressed my wife has become very tempermental, when angry she speaks abuse. I cant mention basically its unthinkable towards me and my family.

Abusive Husband

Assalam O Alaikum to all…

I hve been married since the last 1 yr & 4 months. It was by my choice. I guess that’s where I made a mistake. I knew my husband for 8 years before marrying him. Even during our courtship he was very abusive, physically & verbally and would always threaten to leave me. We would somehow get back together & I would forgive & forget everything.

Terrible relationship between parents and son

I love my parents both and my father is also my best friend. My father hits my mom beats her a lot. He has been that way all my life since I was really young. My mother once left the house for 7 months to get away from him. My father tried to burn down the house one time and I took the blame for it with the police. He did not tell me to I just did it to protect my father.

He beats me and threatens divorce, then apologizes

Me and my husband fight a lot. Most of them from my end are only verbal but my husband gets very angry and loses control which leads him to beat me up brutally and he threatens to divorce me and always says, “If i knew all this would have happened, I would never have married you.”

In love with an abused married woman

Hi i just need some advice. I’ve been seeing a woman who is married but her husband is not really there for her and they are separated. We grew close and we starting seeing each other for a year now.

Just recently her ex (her husband) contacted her and now she is thinking of leaving me and going back to him. I don’t understand why. But I can’t let her go as she means the world to me.