Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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Are my parents allowed to force me to marry someone?

I’m the elder daughter of my parents. I have another younger sister. We don’t have any brother. We always tried to do everything what our parents wanted us to do. Every time my father used to tell me you can do this and you can’t do this. I didn’t have any opinion of my own. It is like what ever we do on our own will be wrong and bad for us.

Will Allah forgive me for rejecting a proposal after accepting?

Asalamualaikum,
My parents had finalized my partner for me a year ago who is my cousin. That time I was okay with it and agreed to it. However, as time went on I met another guy. I was very much attracted towards him. I started to fall for him very badly. He felt the same about me.

How can I deal with these powerful love feelings?

I love one boy and he dosent live here where I live and my mom hates him and my parents don’t allow me to have a boyfriend!

marry someone practiscing but don’t have passion for…or marry someone non practicing ?

I’m soooo confused..I’m engaged to marry a practicing man who is a year younger than I. He’s good looking and perfect..but I don’t feel passion for him, maybe his age is the issue or that he isn’t financially established yet Allahu alim. I recently met this guy who is older and more mature, and have [...]

Islamic view on intimate video chat with husband

Assalamualikum. For the past 5 months my husband is not near me, as he got a job abroad and had to go. As he finds it very difficult to stay without me(especially as he cannot sexually satisfy himself without me), he applied for family visa for me and our son, but it got rejected twice.

I am in love with a married man, is it wrong to encourage him to leave his wife?

I met this brother through work and he never mentioned that he is married and has four kids. He was my superior. I always had a lot of respect for his intelligence, even though he would on the odd occasion flirt with me…

I cant control myself

Hi, I’m 11-12 years old and I know this is weird and it took me alot of courage to admit this: But I keep thinking about women you know how, and I need help. This is really hard to say. I have seen the parts of women on the internet, I am very ashamed of this. I keep thinking about it all the time and in some cases I have actually thought about men.

I am falling in love with a Hindu girl; how do I remove these feelings?

I don’t want to dis-obey my faith or my mother who has worked so hard to put me in such position. And I don’t want to hurt the girl, I would like to say this I have never met anyone like her, she is so very intelligent, kind and very hard working. Most Muslim girls I come across in my community are insecure people, who enjoy gossiping and unfortunately rather uneducated, so I don’t know whether I will ever meet someone like her again.

I am a Muslim girl who wants to marry a Hindu boy; please help me out.

For the first year I said no because I know that my parents won’t agree(our family is very big) but later on I realized that he is the one who cares for me a lot and then I said “yes”. It was a relation of about 6 years; I used to say I will leave my parents and will marry him. Also, I said I am ready to leave everything except my religion; I told him that I pray to Allah and he said ok.

Follow ones heart after negative Istikhara.

I wanted to know what if someone wants to follow their heart even the istikhara was negative?