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I am tired, confused and do not want to marry my cousin anymore. Its driving me to suicidal thoughts
Recently, I went to Pakistan last year for my brother’s wedding. I already had been told that I was engaged to this boy within my family whom I knew. This is the same person who I remember when I went last time to Pakistan I told my mother if I wanted to get married to someone it would be him, I was about 12 years old then. While I was there in Pakistan I did some things that I should of not done, I never did anything like get physical with him or anything (like commit zina), but like sitting close to him when he was not my mahram, I was continuously warned by mother, and relatives that a muslim women does not act the way I did.
Fiancee informs about affair after engagement
sallam alaikum, may be peace be on you. I got engaged to a fiancee by parents; they convinced me to marry her because of religious values. I did isthikara for few days and got engaged to her, then I had a chat personally just to know and exchange opinions about deen and marriage and she revealed her past [...]
Two failed online relationships! Now what?
I am a young girl of 19 years. I fell in love with two different guys online, and both betrayed me.
Heartbroken: I rejected one and then was rejected by the other
I had to break up with one guy because of my family, then I was turned down by another. Is it fair what this guy did to me?
Help! how to talk to muslim parents?
He told his mom about me, but his mom was very negative – she called me a whore and that I’m lying about my interest in converting to Islam because I only want his money.
relationship guilt and depression
I used to be in a haram relationship with a boy, he promised me marriage and everything. I know it was wrong but I believed it and because of that I did sinful acts. I did not lose my virginity but other than that I have done everything else. I felt so guilty about everything and I started doing [...]
I want to marry a girl whom I loved and had physical relationship with
Assalmualaikkum, I’m in a relationship with a non muslim girl from past 6 years. We had physical relations too. I know what I did was wrong, and I want to marry her as in Nikaah. My parents and a priest advised me not to marry, as it is not allowed in Islam. But I can never cheat [...]
I want to marry my online love?
I am 20 years old and passing my days in depression and fear nowadys. I am from bangladesh and last year i met a boy in facebook who is from india. We know each other for almost 1 year and we both love each other. I never wanted to be in relation because i always used to fear of the later consequence, because my dad will never accept my relation and it is haraam. I never used to talk to boys too before.
Are my parents allowed to force me to marry someone?
I’m the elder daughter of my parents. I have another younger sister. We don’t have any brother. We always tried to do everything what our parents wanted us to do. Every time my father used to tell me you can do this and you can’t do this. I didn’t have any opinion of my own. It is like what ever we do on our own will be wrong and bad for us.
Will Allah forgive me for rejecting a proposal after accepting?
Asalamualaikum,
My parents had finalized my partner for me a year ago who is my cousin. That time I was okay with it and agreed to it. However, as time went on I met another guy. I was very much attracted towards him. I started to fall for him very badly. He felt the same about me.
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